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Need and Desperation in Love

March 4, 2008

Host Armand DiMele

Why does love, the ultimate prize, cause so much pain? Armand DiMele traces the roots of romantic neediness, examining how men and women fall into obsession at different points in a relationship, why desperation can both draw people in and push them away, and what the concept of limerence reveals about involuntary romantic longing.

Wisdom of the Week

The Pleasure of Moving Other People’s Emotions

Featured episode while curated clips are being prepared.

Why do people enjoy provoking reactions in others? Armand DiMele argues that our repressed emotions make us easy targets for manipulation, and that triggering someone else's feelings is often a bid for power or a way to stay hidden. Music, trolling, lap dancing, and jealousy all illustrate the same dynamic.

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Sixteen themes spanning four decades of the show.

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In the heart of New York City, helping people for over 40 years.

Located on 57th Street, The Positive Mind Center delivers comprehensive mental health counseling and psychotherapy. Founded by Armand DiMele over 40 years ago.

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