Keyword: parenting

The Family Constellation March 13, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Every family is a web of valences, positive and negative, and Armand DiMele maps the full constellation: single fathers raising daughters, mothers and sons, absent parents, and the toll each pattern takes. Linda Vanella, LCSW-R, adds clinical perspective, and a caller named JT illustrates what happens when a child withdraws from an unaccepting world and how embarrassment, not circumstance, becomes the last barrier to belonging.

Parenting Through Schizophrenia with Randy Kay August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Randy Kay, author of “Ben Behind His Voices,” joins Armand to trace her five-year journey recognizing her son’s gradual-onset schizophrenia. They examine how parents normalize early warning signs, why diagnosis so often comes only at crisis, and how education, NAMI, and redefining hope made recovery possible.

Sitting With the Question November 9, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Armand DiMele argues that the most powerful thing you can do is stop rushing toward answers and learn to sit with your own questions. Drawing on Zen koans, caller conversations about aging relationships and childhood sexual abuse, and a clip from The Jerk, he shows how the right question opens you to genuine self-knowledge.

Nature Versus Nurture in Parenting September 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Can good parenting overcome bad genes? Armand DiMele and Stephanie D’Ambra, LCSW, dig into the nature versus nurture debate through real cases: a mother baffled by her troubled teen, a neuroscientist who carries a psychopath’s genetic profile yet lives normally, and callers including an adoptee who found her musical gift written in her DNA.

The Art of Really Listening April 3, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Most people hear words but never truly listen. Armand DiMele dissects why we tune out, from parents who dismiss children to partners who fix instead of feel, and what it actually means to make someone feel heard. Callers share what draws them to the show.

Growing Up Without Rules with Barbara Jessen March 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Brian Jefferson, Stephanie D'Ambra

Rules are love, argues Armand DiMele in this conversation with Barbara Jessen, executive director of a group home for at-risk teenage girls in Indiana. Together with Stephanie D’Ambra, LCSW, they examine what chaotic childhoods cost kids, how brain development shapes decision-making, and why structure feels foreign to children who never had it.

Youth Isolation and the Hikikomori Phenomenon January 17, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

A million Japanese youth have locked themselves in their bedrooms for years. Armand DiMele uses the hikikomori phenomenon as a lens for examining how overprotective parenting, competitive pressure, and cultural apathy are suppressing the natural rebelliousness of adolescence, with his assistant Stephanie Alomba joining the discussion.

Sibling Rivalry and Competition November 3, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Sibling rivalry is rooted in biological competition for scarce resources, chiefly parental time and attention. Armand DiMele traces the dynamic from birth order through adult behavior, drawing on callers’ stories, and offers parents concrete guidance on reducing destructive competition at home.

When Parents Are Depressed Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich

Parental depression is one of the strongest predictors of childhood anxiety and behavioral disorders, and treating the parent often helps the child more than medicating the child. Armand DiMele and research assistant Christine Ulrich examine the evidence, explain the family-system dynamic, and take calls from adult listeners tracing their struggles back to depressed or absent parents.

Consistency in Parenting and Love Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Research showing that withholding love produces more resentment in children than direct punishment opens a wide conversation about how parental inconsistency shapes romantic life. Armand DiMele takes calls from listeners wrestling with cold mothers, oversharing on dates, and the surprising urge to sabotage genuine love once you finally find it.