Keyword: ego

The Id the Ego and Falling in Love August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Why do people fall in love, and why do they stop? Armand DiMele, joined in the studio by Lisa Arnone, LCSW, uses Freud’s id and ego to explain romantic longing as an inner drive, exploring how unmet needs pull us toward love and how self-sufficiency can quiet that pull entirely.

Fixed Mindset vs Growth Mindset with Dr. Carol Dweck February 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

Fixed mindset people treat setbacks as proof of permanent flaws; growth mindset people treat them as data. Dr. Carol Dweck, Professor and Author of “Mindset,” joins Armand DiMele to explore how these two orientations shape ambition, love, parenting, and even how we age.

The Vainglorious Person December 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Vainglory is subtler than plain boasting: the vainglorious person wraps genuine insight in passing self-flattery, steering every story back to their own greatness. Armand DiMele unpacks the pattern, argues it masks deep smallness, and makes the case for genuine humility as the rarer and more admirable quality.

Greed as a Human Condition December 24, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Is greed a moral failing or simply the human condition? Armand DiMele and Dr. Bernard Starr, PhD, Psychologist, examine greed as a near-narcotic drive rooted in survival, comparing Wall Street excess and the Madoff scandal to universal human hunger for more health, love, and meaning.

The Fear of Growing Old with Dr. Bernard Starr October 30, 2008

Growing old is feared more than death itself, and that fear may be largely a cultural illusion. Armand DiMele and Dr. Bernard Starr examine how longevity has reshaped society, why research shows older people are often more satisfied than expected, and how a shift in ego and time-consciousness can make aging a genuine liberation.

Escaping the Prison of Self October 29, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernard Starr

Can we truly escape the identity built from our experiences, or are we prisoners of our own ego? Armand DiMele reunites with Dr. Bernard Starr, PhD, Psychologist, to trace the arc from 1970s feeling therapies and primal work to spiritual psychology and the limits of both approaches when it comes to genuine transformation.

Truth, Innocence and Self-Deception April 27, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne O'Connell, Kent Robertshaw, Stephanie D'Ambra

Why do people lie to themselves, and what does that cost them? Armand DiMele and guests Dr. Kent Robertshaw, MD and Stephanie D’Ambra, LCSW explore how shame, unmet needs, and fear of self-examination keep people stuck in dysfunctional patterns, and why honest self-reflection is the foundation of real change.

We Are Our Relationships with Christian De Quincey December 21, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christian De Quincey, Roberta Maria Atti

Philosopher and author Dr. Christian De Quincey argues that relationships are not something individuals enter into but the very source from which individuals emerge. Armand DiMele and co-host Roberta Maria Atti explore how the shift from feeling to reason fractured human connectedness, with reference to Jean Liedloff’s continuum concept.

The Search for Significance Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Does the drive to be noticed make us miserable, or is feeling significant essential to mental health? Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone, LCSW, trace the line between healthy agency and egotism, explore how depression strips away a sense of mattering, and ask what we might discover if we stopped trying to be seen.