Keyword: unconscious patterns

The Invisible Outhouse We Carry December 27, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

We all carry invisible psychological shields, shaped in childhood, that distort how we see ourselves and others. Armand uses the Mr. Bean outhouse gag as a running metaphor for these blind spots, then takes calls from listeners who recognize their own, from chronic tension to conflict avoidance to a lifelong pattern of addiction.

Oh No He’s Just Like My Father with Sandra Reischus August 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sandra Reischus

We unconsciously seek partners who recreate the emotional dynamics of our childhood homes, not the people themselves but the feelings they produce. Sandra Reischus, author of the book of the same name, joins Armand to unpack why comfort zones in love are often traps, and how psychotherapy rewires those early patterns.