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Lying and Deception April 26, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of lying and deception, discussing various motivations behind why people lie, such as self-esteem protection, conflict avoidance, and impression management. He examines cultural differences in perceptions of lying, the impact of individualism versus collectivism, and how personality traits influence reactions to dishonesty. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the nuances of truth and deception, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with honesty and the societal implications of lying.

Ghosts in Our Lives August 15, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘ghosts’—the memories and past relationships that linger in our lives. He discusses how these ghosts can manifest as feelings of regret, longing, or even anger, and how they affect our current relationships. Armand delves into the psychological implications of holding onto these memories and the emotional turmoil they can cause. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ghosts and consider whether they want to keep them or let them go. The show invites personal stories and insights about the ghosts that haunt us.

Transforming Yourself November 29, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Gladys Santopal, Sherry Oren King

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of transformation through personal stories and discussions with gestalt therapists Sherry Oren King and Gladys Santopal. The conversation delves into the complexities of self-identity, the roles we play in life, and the emotional challenges that accompany personal growth. Through anecdotes, including a poignant football game and a heartfelt funeral, the episode illustrates how moments of vulnerability can lead to profound transformation. The hosts emphasize the importance of embracing all feelings and the journey toward authenticity.

Idiopathic Craniofacial Erythema Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of shame and embarrassment, particularly in relation to suicide. He discusses the impact of societal expectations and personal experiences on mental health, highlighting the struggles faced by individuals, including Afghan women and Japanese citizens. Through various personal stories and cultural insights, the episode delves into how shame can lead to self-destructive behaviors and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with shame and to seek connection and support.

Exploring Unexpected Feelings Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of emotions that people often feel but are not expected to feel. He explores various scenarios where individuals may not experience the emotions that society anticipates, such as monogamy, generosity, and patience. Through engaging anecdotes and listener calls, Armand delves into the paradox of feelings, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own emotional experiences and the expectations placed upon them by others. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding and accepting one’s feelings, regardless of societal norms.