Keyword: mindfulness

Sobriety and Being Present December 29, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of sobriety beyond the traditional associations with alcohol and drugs. He delves into the idea that sobriety is about being present and fully engaged in the moment, free from distractions and attachments. Through discussions with a group of men, Armand reflects on what it means to truly be here now, encouraging listeners to consider how often they experience this state of clarity and connection. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining presence in a world filled with distractions and the importance of emotional honesty, including the role of tears in achieving a sober state of being.

Happiness and Resistance December 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the complex nature of happiness and the psychological resistance that often hinders personal growth. They discuss the myriad of self-help resources available on happiness, the prevalence of depression, and the significant financial investments people make in search of joy. The conversation delves into the concept of the ‘engineer’ within us, which protects us from change and the unknown. Through dialogue and acceptance, the hosts encourage listeners to confront their resistance and embrace the journey towards a more fulfilling life.

Locked-In Syndrome and Emotional Isolation November 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the concept of ‘locked-in syndrome,’ a neurological condition where individuals are awake but unable to communicate. They discuss the emotional parallels, such as addiction and social anxiety, that can leave people feeling isolated. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding and reaching out to those who may be emotionally ‘locked-in’ and highlights the significance of gratitude in fostering connections. The hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their own emotional states and the ways they can engage with others during the holiday season.

Power of the Mind October 13, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the intricate relationship between mood, neurotransmitters, and external factors affecting mental health. He emphasizes the importance of understanding how our internal chemistry and external environments influence our feelings. DeMille encourages listeners to explore their emotions without getting trapped in them, highlighting the value of introspection and flexible thinking. He also addresses the significance of communication and connection with others in managing moods and stresses the need for a holistic approach to mental well-being. The episode concludes with a call for listeners to engage and share their experiences.

Control and Its Impact on Life September 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of control and its significance in our lives. He discusses how our early experiences shape our need for control, from childhood potty training to adult habits. The show delves into the challenges of managing emotions, the fear of losing control, and the impact of perfectionism. Armand emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to balance control with spontaneity. Through listener interactions, he highlights personal struggles with anxiety and obsessive-compulsive behaviors, offering insights on how to cope and regain a sense of control in various aspects of life.

Getting Older September 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of aging, discussing the societal perceptions of older individuals and the importance of maintaining a positive attitude as one ages. He highlights the growing demographic of centenarians and the valuable contributions older workers can make in various fields. Through anecdotes and humor, Armand emphasizes the wisdom that comes with age while also addressing the challenges faced by older adults, including age discrimination and the need for meaningful connections. The conversation invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with aging and the potential for personal growth at any age.

Listening with the Special Ear July 2, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the nuances of human interaction, emphasizing the importance of listening to subtle cues in conversations. He discusses how seemingly benign comments can reveal deeper issues and the significance of being aware of our surroundings and the people we engage with. Through various anecdotes and examples, he illustrates how our perceptions can be influenced by our desires and fears. DeMille also touches on psychological phenomena like the nocebo effect and cultural beliefs that shape our understanding of mental health. The episode encourages listeners to ask questions and seek deeper connections without judgment.

Confrontation: A Double-Edged Sword July 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Sherri Siegel explore the complexities of confrontation, discussing its cultural perceptions and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. They delve into the necessity of confrontation in addressing injustices while highlighting the importance of skillful communication. The conversation touches on the emotional triggers that can escalate conflicts and the significance of finding common ground in disagreements. Listeners are encouraged to approach confrontations with empathy and a focus on constructive outcomes, rather than destructive patterns. The episode also includes insights from callers sharing their personal experiences with confrontation.

Recreation and Repetition June 4, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of recreation as a means of self-reinvention and the importance of repetition in our lives. He discusses how both humans and animals engage in repetitive behaviors for pleasure and fulfillment, from exercise routines to musical patterns. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand emphasizes that understanding our own patterns of repetition can lead to greater self-awareness and personal growth. The conversation touches on the balance between routine and creativity, and the necessity of stepping outside of our comfort zones to truly recreate ourselves.

Exploring Basic Human Needs April 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Camille, Denny, Felicia, Giuseppe, Heidi, Stephanie D'Ambra, Tony

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the fundamental human needs of certainty, uncertainty, significance, and connection. Drawing inspiration from Tony Robbins, he explores how these needs influence our lives and relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of balancing certainty and uncertainty, highlighting how both are essential for growth and fulfillment. Through engaging conversations with callers, he delves into personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own needs and the dynamics of their relationships. The show aims to foster a deeper understanding of how these needs shape our interactions and emotional well-being.