Keyword: envy

The Roots of Jealousy September 21, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Jealousy poisons relationships yet has deep evolutionary roots. Armand DiMele and Stephanie D’Ambra, LCSW trace the emotion from its origins in mate guarding and animal behavior through its cultural history, then break down the A-B-C jealousy triangle and how self-doubt, dominance, and fear of abandonment drive it. Callers share real struggles with trust and infidelity.

Inheritance Neurosis with Dr. Tripp Evans September 25, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Tripp Evans, Kent Robertshaw

When wealth replaces love in a family, children grow up rudderless and waiting for their parents to die. Armand DiMele, Dr. Kent Robertshaw, MD, Psychiatrist, and Dr. Tripp Evans examine how inherited money warps identity, poisons relationships, and breeds the particular loneliness of the very rich.

Narcissism and Self-Love with Dr. Frank Yeoman March 13, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Frank Yeomans

Healthy self-love and pathological narcissism are not the same thing. Armand and psychiatrist Dr. Frank Yeoman trace the spectrum from perfectionistic collapse (illustrated by the poem “Richard Corey”) to envy, aggression, and celebrity worship, arguing that most narcissistic suffering stems from an inability to feel genuinely good about oneself.

The Power of Kindness August 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Kindness is framed not as a soft sentiment but as evolutionary glue and a cornerstone of sanity. Armand DiMele maps the virtues of a well-balanced person and argues that fear, envy, greed, and jealousy, the classic deadly sins, are precisely what block us from genuine, give-without-getting kindness.

Pleasure in Other People’s Misfortune March 7, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Why do we slow down at accidents, follow celebrity scandals, and buy newspapers with tragic headlines? Armand DiMele examines schadenfreude, the universal tendency to feel pleasure at others’ misfortune, drawing on neuroscience showing the brain’s reward centers light up in response to tragedy and arguing this impulse is far more widespread than most people admit.