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Welcome to the Positive Mind April 20, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Health and Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele, a board-certified psychiatrist, discusses the complexities of mental health treatment, particularly focusing on addiction, depression, anxiety, and the role of medication versus psychotherapy. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the interconnections between trauma, childhood experiences, and addiction. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore various psychiatric medications, their effects, and the challenges of prescribing them, particularly in the context of general practitioners versus psychiatrists. The conversation highlights the need for a balanced approach to treatment that includes both medication and therapeutic interventions.

Understanding Depression and Its Complexities April 1, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrew Solomon

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages in a profound conversation with Andrew Solomon, author of ‘The Noonday Demon’. They explore the multifaceted nature of depression, discussing its symptoms, causes, and the various treatments available. Solomon shares personal experiences with depression and highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing it early. The discussion also touches on cultural perceptions of depression, the impact of societal trauma, and the significance of human connection in overcoming mental health challenges. Through their dialogue, they emphasize that depression is not just a personal struggle but a complex interplay of biological, psychological, and social factors.

Doubting People January 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of doubters—individuals who live with suspicion and fear of losing everything. He discusses how childhood experiences shape their skepticism and the impact of lacking trust in themselves and others. DeMille highlights the paradox of doubters seeking security while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and gently supporting these individuals, as they often yearn for connection but are terrified of being overwhelmed. The episode delves into the complexities of doubt, trust, and the human experience.

Worrying: A Psychological Phenomenon December 28, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of worrying, discussing its various forms and the psychological implications it has on individuals. He differentiates between worry and concern, emphasizing that worry is a uniquely human trait tied to our ability to think about the future. Armand also addresses the struggles faced by chronic worriers and the societal perceptions that often stigmatize them. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, he aims to foster understanding and compassion for those who grapple with excessive worry, while also highlighting the importance of support and connection in overcoming these challenges.

Embracing Resistance for Growth December 22, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of resistance as a vital part of personal growth and change. He discusses how resistance can manifest in our lives, whether through emotional struggles, financial challenges, or interpersonal relationships. By acknowledging and embracing our resistance, we can better understand ourselves and facilitate meaningful change. The discussion includes insights from callers who share their experiences with resistance, highlighting the importance of recognizing who we are not in order to discover our true selves. Armand encourages listeners to celebrate their resistance as a natural part of the growth process.

Transforming Yourself November 29, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Gladys Santopal, Sherry Oren King

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of transformation through personal stories and discussions with gestalt therapists Sherry Oren King and Gladys Santopal. The conversation delves into the complexities of self-identity, the roles we play in life, and the emotional challenges that accompany personal growth. Through anecdotes, including a poignant football game and a heartfelt funeral, the episode illustrates how moments of vulnerability can lead to profound transformation. The hosts emphasize the importance of embracing all feelings and the journey toward authenticity.

Objectification and Vulnerability Undated

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of objectification and vulnerability in human relationships. He discusses how people often distance themselves from their needs and emotions by objectifying others, leading to a lack of genuine connection. Through various calls, listeners share their experiences with jealousy, trauma, and the impact of past relationships on their present lives. Armand emphasizes the importance of confronting one’s vulnerabilities and making peace with past experiences to foster healthier relationships. The conversation highlights the need for self-awareness and the courage to embrace one’s feelings.

How to Handle Anger from Others Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses strategies for dealing with irrational anger from loved ones or colleagues. He explores the various reasons behind anger, including chronic anger and passive-aggressive behavior, and emphasizes the importance of not reacting with anger in return. DeMille provides practical tools for disarming anger, such as acknowledging the other person’s feelings, using vulnerability, and even crying as a response. He highlights the significance of understanding the underlying fears behind anger and the need for tenderness in resolving conflicts. The episode aims to equip listeners with the knowledge to navigate challenging interpersonal dynamics effectively.

Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.

Exploring the Nature of Love Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex nature of love, discussing how it varies between individuals and is influenced by personal experiences. He explores the differences in how men and women perceive love, the role of bonding, and the impact of fear and possessiveness on relationships. Through various anecdotes and listener calls, Demeule emphasizes that love is a feeling rather than a defined concept, shaped by our interactions and emotional needs. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the dynamics of love in different contexts.