Keyword: emotional safety

Fear and Trust in Relationships January 21, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Ben Starr delve into the complex relationship between fear and trust. They explore how fear can serve as both a protective mechanism and a barrier to genuine connection. The discussion touches on personal experiences with trust, the impact of upbringing on perceptions of fear, and the balance between being open and cautious in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with fear and how it shapes their interactions with loved ones. The conversation highlights the importance of finding a healthy middle ground in navigating trust and fear.

Understanding Anxiety, Excitement, and Fear March 19, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. William Astwood

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Dr. William Astwood delve into the complexities of anxiety, excitement, and fear. They explore the physiological responses associated with these emotions, discussing how they can often feel overwhelming and confusing. The hosts aim to demystify these experiences, providing insights into the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems and how they relate to our emotional states. With over 25 years of experience in mental health, they share practical knowledge to help listeners gain better control over their emotions and understand the underlying mechanisms of anxiety disorders.

Are You Eating the Right Food? March 7, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between safety, love, and emotional well-being. He discusses how feelings of distress can hinder the ability to love fully and how dependency can complicate intimate relationships. The conversation delves into the societal obsession with security and the illusion of safety in relationships, emphasizing that true love requires vulnerability and trust. Armand and his guests share insights on how personal experiences shape our perceptions of safety and love, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace the uncertainties of life and relationships.

Rhythms of Relationship January 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of emotional safety and commitment. He discusses how relationships can fluctuate between intimacy and distance, and how personal experiences shape our understanding of love. Armand challenges conventional definitions of love, suggesting that each individual’s experience is unique and cannot be confined to societal norms. He highlights the different sensations associated with love, from desire to satisfaction, and encourages listeners to embrace their own feelings without the pressure of labels. The episode invites reflection on the nature of love and the freedom that comes from defining it on one’s own terms.

Intimacy and Connection January 17, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and connection in relationships. He addresses common questions about how close is too close and the nature of real intimacy. Drawing on personal anecdotes and psychological insights, he discusses the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the fear of abandonment, and the importance of being genuine in emotional connections. Armand emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding in fostering intimacy, while also acknowledging the challenges that arise from past traumas. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and to seek deeper connections with others.

Emotional Manipulation and Trolling Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Thelma Wingate

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of emotional manipulation, particularly in the context of adolescence and online interactions. He explores how emotional responses can be triggered, leading to behaviors such as trolling, where individuals provoke reactions for amusement. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of trolling and its impact on mental health, including the serious consequences of online harassment. Armand also touches on the dynamics of emotional relationships and the societal pressures that influence behavior, particularly among teenagers. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with emotional triggers and the nature of online interactions.

Emotional Expression and the Healing Journey Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Anne Marganow about the importance of emotional expression, particularly among men. They discuss how societal expectations often suppress softer emotions, leading to issues like anger and depression. Anne shares her techniques for helping clients access their deeper feelings, emphasizing the need for a safe space to explore vulnerability. The conversation highlights the transformative power of acknowledging and processing emotions, illustrating how this work can improve relationships and personal well-being. Listeners are encouraged to confront their fears and embrace their emotional truths.

The End Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the survival strategies of animals and how they parallel human behavior. He discusses the instinctual need to survive, the role of deception in both the animal kingdom and human interactions, and the various ways individuals protect themselves from perceived threats. From mimicry and camouflage to the psychological defenses humans employ, DeMille illustrates how these strategies manifest in everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these behaviors as adaptations to ensure safety and survival in a complex world.