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Accessing Your Real Self: What Does It Mean to Be Real November 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alberto, Charles Bavona, Karen, Kelly, Megan, Monroe, Shakara, Teresa

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the profound question of what it means to be real. Through introspective dialogue and listener call-ins, he discusses how people present either strength or weakness depending on their needs, fears, or survival instincts. Armand connects the idea of authenticity with pain, vulnerability, and presence, arguing that “crazy” behaviors are often adaptations to protect fragile selves. Excerpts from The Velveteen Rabbit and quotes from E.E. Cummings, Judy Garland, and others enrich the philosophical journey. Callers share personal experiences with trauma, depression, overthinking, and strained relationships, revealing how pain, when accepted, can guide people back to their true selves. The episode urges listeners to face discomfort, question disguises, and reclaim their real identities.

Finding Your Own Questions November 10, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the significance of asking the right questions in life. He discusses how people often seek answers without understanding the core of their inquiries. Through various caller interactions, he emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and understanding one’s emotions. Armand encourages listeners to confront their fears and insecurities, particularly in relationships, and highlights the value of being present and aware of one’s feelings. The conversation delves into themes of love, happiness, and the complexities of human connections.

Biggest Challenge in Being a Concerned Parent November 9, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of being a concerned parent to adult children. He emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions rather than seeking immediate answers, highlighting that self-inquiry can lead to personal growth and understanding. Armand encourages listeners to explore their feelings and the deeper motivations behind their relationships. He also shares insights on how to embrace one’s own experiences and emotions, advocating for curiosity over judgment in conversations. Throughout the show, he invites callers to share their questions and challenges, offering guidance on navigating personal dilemmas.

Home the Movie November 3, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the unique rhythm of Manhattan and how it affects newcomers and residents alike. He discusses the various personalities one might encounter in the city, likening them to different birds, from owls to peacocks. Through anecdotes and interactions with callers, he explores the cultural perceptions of Manhattan, the challenges of adapting to its fast pace, and the beauty of its ever-changing landscape. The conversation highlights the diverse experiences of individuals navigating life in New York City.

Yearning and Its Impact on Life August 26, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of yearning, its significance in our lives, and how it shapes our relationships and emotional well-being. He discusses the disparity between individuals who yearn for connection and those who disavow their yearning due to past experiences. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of yearning, including its role in grief and relationships, and how it can manifest in various aspects of life, such as love, sexuality, and personal achievements. Armand also touches on the importance of recognizing and embracing our yearnings to lead a fulfilling life.

Exploring the 20-Something Generation August 25, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique characteristics of the 20-something generation with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Lauren Sykes. They explore how societal changes have led to a prolonged adolescence, with young adults delaying traditional milestones like marriage and home ownership. The conversation delves into the impact of cultural shifts, economic factors, and the role of technology in shaping the identities and choices of today’s youth. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding this generation’s perspective and the need for intergenerational dialogue.

Self-Hatred and Acceptance August 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of self-hatred, discussing how it often stems from childhood experiences and societal pressures. He delves into the behaviors of passive-aggressive individuals and the self-blame that can accompany such actions. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding the inner child. The conversation highlights how self-criticism can lead to a cycle of negativity, and Armand encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and seek validation from within rather than from external sources.

Acedia and Me April 20, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kathleen Norris

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Kathleen Norris discusses the concept of acedia, a state of restlessness and boredom that can lead to emotional numbness and detachment from life. She explores its historical roots in monastic literature and its relevance in modern society, particularly in the context of caregiving and personal relationships. Norris shares her personal experiences with acedia, highlighting the importance of community and connection in overcoming this condition. The conversation touches on the differences between acedia and depression, emphasizing the need for individuals to engage with their surroundings and find meaning in their lives.

Haiti and Gestalt Therapy January 13, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele reflects on the resilience of the Haitian people in the face of adversity, particularly following devastating earthquakes. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing ‘unfinished business’ in our lives through Gestalt therapy, which encourages individuals to take ownership of their feelings and experiences. Armand discusses various psychological concepts, including retroflexion, deflection, and projection, and how they manifest in our relationships. He encourages listeners to communicate from a place of vulnerability and self-awareness, rather than blame. The episode also touches on the significance of personal growth and the impact of our past on present behaviors.

Exploring the Nature of Balance and Self-Discovery January 12, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human emotions, relationships, and the quest for balance in life. He delves into the impact of antidepressants, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of Gestalt therapy in understanding oneself. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand emphasizes the need for individuals to confront their inner struggles, recognize their patterns, and seek a deeper connection with themselves. The episode highlights the significance of personal growth and the challenges faced in navigating emotional landscapes.