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Abandonment Rage February 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotions surrounding love and abandonment, particularly focusing on the phenomenon of abandonment rage. He discusses how feelings of abandonment can lead to intense emotional reactions, including depression and rage, and explores the psychological implications of these feelings. The conversation includes insights on the chemistry of love, the impact of loss, and the ways individuals cope with the end of relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and loss, and how these emotions manifest in their lives.

Power of the Mind October 13, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the intricate relationship between mood, neurotransmitters, and external factors affecting mental health. He emphasizes the importance of understanding how our internal chemistry and external environments influence our feelings. DeMille encourages listeners to explore their emotions without getting trapped in them, highlighting the value of introspection and flexible thinking. He also addresses the significance of communication and connection with others in managing moods and stresses the need for a holistic approach to mental well-being. The episode concludes with a call for listeners to engage and share their experiences.

Feeling Trapped September 10, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling trapped, particularly in the context of childhood experiences and adult relationships. He discusses the impact of caretaking roles assumed by children in dysfunctional families, especially those with mentally ill parents. Through various callers’ stories, the show delves into the psychological complexities of growing up in such environments, the challenges of adult life, and the importance of recognizing and addressing past traumas. Armand emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding one’s own needs while navigating relationships and responsibilities.

Trouble with Friends August 26, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Altieri, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of friendship and the challenges of delivering unpleasant truths. Joined by physician Sherri Siegel and psychotherapist Catherine Altieri, the conversation explores the importance of honesty in relationships, the emotional burden of being a bearer of bad news, and the reactions people have when faced with difficult information. The discussion touches on the historical figure of Cassandra, who was doomed to tell the truth but never believed, drawing parallels to modern-day experiences of doubt and skepticism in communication. The episode emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding when navigating tough conversations.

Feelings and Emotions July 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and neurologist Sherri Siegel explore the complexities of human emotions, focusing on alexithymia, a condition where individuals struggle to identify and express their feelings. They discuss how emotional numbness can develop due to trauma, cultural factors, and the impact of aging on emotional sensitivity. The conversation delves into the physiological aspects of emotions, the interplay between the brain and nervous system, and the challenges individuals face in communicating their feelings. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their emotional experiences and the importance of understanding feelings in relationships.

Fear of Being Trapped July 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fundamental human instincts related to the fear of being trapped, both physically and emotionally. He discusses how this fear manifests in various aspects of life, from relationships to financial responsibilities, and highlights the importance of finding escape routes, whether through vacations or personal growth. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling trapped and the instinctual need for freedom and flexibility. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences of feeling confined and to consider the necessity of change and escape in their lives.

Masks We Wear When Wounded April 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow, Claudia Fox, Diane, Matilda, Susie

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of vulnerability and the masks we wear to hide our wounds. He discusses how individuals often project strength and confidence, especially during job searches or family gatherings, despite feeling hurt inside. Through anecdotes and a poignant poem, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the emotional toll of pretending to be okay. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and the burden of maintaining a facade, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves and seek genuine connections. The episode serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

Exploring Basic Human Needs April 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Camille, Denny, Felicia, Giuseppe, Heidi, Stephanie D'Ambra, Tony

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the fundamental human needs of certainty, uncertainty, significance, and connection. Drawing inspiration from Tony Robbins, he explores how these needs influence our lives and relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of balancing certainty and uncertainty, highlighting how both are essential for growth and fulfillment. Through engaging conversations with callers, he delves into personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own needs and the dynamics of their relationships. The show aims to foster a deeper understanding of how these needs shape our interactions and emotional well-being.

Stress and Strain: Understanding the Nature of Stress March 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernie Stahl

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the dual nature of stress, emphasizing its importance in life while also addressing its potential to lead to strain and mental breakdown. Joined by Dr. Bernie Stahl, they explore how stress can be beneficial when managed properly, and the dangers of allowing it to accumulate without proper acknowledgment. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of stress, the importance of feeling and expressing pain, and the concept of resilience in coping with life’s challenges. Listeners are encouraged to confront their stressors and embrace their emotions for better mental health.

Understanding Stress and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality November 13, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of stress and how it manifests in our lives, particularly through obsessive-compulsive behaviors. He differentiates between obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), highlighting the emotional turmoil and perfectionism that often accompany these conditions. Armand discusses the impact of internal and external stressors, the compulsive behaviors that arise from anxiety, and the challenges faced by individuals with OCPD in their relationships and decision-making processes. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster better mental health and interpersonal connections.