Keyword: control

How Power Corrupts and Controls November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Power is neither good nor bad, but how we wield it reveals our deepest wounds. Armand DiMele maps the many faces of power, from fear-based authority and birth-order dynamics to the narcissistic traits of those who dominate others, and asks how we make peace with our own hunger for it.

Dominance and Submission with Melissa Febos Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Melissa Febos, author of the memoir “Whip Smart,” describes her four years as a professional dominatrix in Midtown Manhattan and what it taught her about power and fear. Armand DiMele and co-host Dr. Sherry Siegel probe why high-powered men seek submission, and Febos reflects on how therapy finally let her see the work clearly.

Breaking the Habit of Underachievement with Dr. Kenneth Christian Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Kenneth Christian

Limiting beliefs keep talented people stuck, and therapist Armand DiMele unpacks them with Dr. Kenneth Christian, author of “Your Own Worst Enemy.” They map the traps: distaste for order, compulsive giving for love, the need to control, and fear of rocking the boat, arguing the problem is never the person, only the pattern.

Disarming the Narcissist with Wendy Behary Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Wendy Behary

What does it actually mean to live with a narcissist, and why do so many people keep choosing them? Armand DiMele and Wendy Behary, LCSW, Author of “Disarming the Narcissist,” map the traits, from entitlement and demeaning sarcasm to emotional detachment, and explore why partners often play a willing role in the dynamic.