Keyword: children’s mental health

Toxic Desires Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Dr. Deborah Hillman delve into the complexities of human desires, particularly those deemed toxic. They explore the emotional underpinnings of these desires, including feelings of powerlessness and the need for validation. Listeners are encouraged to call in and share their experiences with toxic desires, leading to insightful discussions about the consequences of pursuing such desires. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing the deeper emotional needs that often drive these toxic urges.

Making Everyone Happy Undated

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of trying to make others happy, especially during the holiday season. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they explore the emotional toll it takes on individuals who feel responsible for the happiness of those around them. The conversation touches on personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges faced when one’s efforts to please others go unrecognized. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the balance between self-care and the desire to make others happy.

How We Create Our Life Stories Undated

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate ways we construct our life narratives and the psychological mechanisms behind them. He discusses how our backgrounds and experiences shape our perceptions and reactions, particularly focusing on the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. Through engaging stories and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding our neural activity and how it influences our thoughts and emotions. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own life stories and the balance they seek in their mental and emotional lives.

Emotional Expression and the Healing Journey Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with therapist Anne Marganow about the importance of emotional expression, particularly among men. They discuss how societal expectations often suppress softer emotions, leading to issues like anger and depression. Anne shares her techniques for helping clients access their deeper feelings, emphasizing the need for a safe space to explore vulnerability. The conversation highlights the transformative power of acknowledging and processing emotions, illustrating how this work can improve relationships and personal well-being. Listeners are encouraged to confront their fears and embrace their emotional truths.

Relationships with Dr. Terry Orbach Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Terry Orbach

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Terry Orbach, a marriage and family therapist, about her research on relationships and her book, ‘Five Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great.’ They discuss common myths about marriage, the importance of communication, and the factors that contribute to lasting relationships. Dr. Orbach shares insights from her long-term study of couples, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other’s values, managing conflict, and maintaining positivity in relationships. The conversation highlights practical steps couples can take to enhance their connection and happiness.

Fathers and Their Roles in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Jessen, Carolee, Dr. Scott Baum, Keith, Leora, Sippy

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of fatherhood and the evolving roles of men in relationships. He explores how societal expectations impact fathers, touching on themes of sensitivity, aggression, and the search for control within relationships. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the emotional struggles faced by both men and women, emphasizing the importance of understanding and support in fostering healthy connections. The conversation also highlights the challenges of intimacy and the need for self-awareness in personal growth.

Chemistry of Love and Relationships Undated

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating intersection of chemistry and human relationships, focusing on the bonding hormone oxytocin. He discusses how oxytocin influences feelings of love, trust, and connection, while also revealing its potential to alienate individuals from others outside their close relationships. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand delves into personal experiences and the complexities of love, attachment, and the impact of familial bonds. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the dynamics of emotional connections.

Understanding Parental Depression and Its Impact on Children Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the significant link between parental depression and children’s emotional well-being. He highlights recent research indicating that children of depressed parents are more likely to experience anxiety and behavioral issues. The conversation explores how parental conflict, whether through anger or withdrawal, affects children and emphasizes the importance of addressing parental mental health to improve outcomes for children. DeMille encourages parents to seek help for their depression, suggesting that treating the parent can lead to improvements in the child’s behavior and emotional state.

Significance and the Search for Meaning Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of significance and its impact on our lives. He explores how society’s obsession with being seen and recognized can lead to feelings of depression and insignificance. Through personal anecdotes and philosophical reflections, he questions the importance we place on external validation and the quest for recognition. The conversation delves into the nature of exhibitionism, agency, and the potential for finding meaning in moments of invisibility. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with significance and the ways they seek to be noticed.

Karmic Attacks and Compassion Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of compassion and empathy, discussing how societal norms and personal experiences shape our ability to connect with others. He delves into the differences between compassion and empathy, the impact of hormonal influences on feelings, and the potential pitfalls of overly sentimental responses. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to reflect on their own emotional responses and the importance of self-compassion. The episode also touches on the challenges of understanding others’ pain and the necessity of genuine connection in alleviating suffering.