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Acts of Kindness and Consequential Strangers August 27, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melinda Blau

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of kindness and its role in connecting with others, particularly with ‘consequential strangers’—individuals outside of our close relationships who can significantly impact our lives. Joined by author Melinda Blau, co-author of the book ‘Consequential Strangers,’ they explore how these acquaintances can provide support and opportunities, often unnoticed in our daily lives. The conversation emphasizes the need to acknowledge these interactions and the positive energy that can arise from simple acts of kindness, enhancing our social connections and overall well-being.

Trouble with Friends August 26, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Catherine Altieri, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of friendship and the challenges of delivering unpleasant truths. Joined by physician Sherri Siegel and psychotherapist Catherine Altieri, the conversation explores the importance of honesty in relationships, the emotional burden of being a bearer of bad news, and the reactions people have when faced with difficult information. The discussion touches on the historical figure of Cassandra, who was doomed to tell the truth but never believed, drawing parallels to modern-day experiences of doubt and skepticism in communication. The episode emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding when navigating tough conversations.

Bonding and Therapy July 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of bonding in therapy and relationships, emphasizing the importance of oxytocin in fostering connections. He explores why individuals may leave therapy prematurely, citing reasons such as anger towards the therapist, financial constraints, and a lack of perceived progress. DeMille highlights the significance of trust and emotional connection in therapeutic settings, arguing that effective therapy often hinges on the bond between therapist and client. He also touches on the biological aspects of bonding, including the roles of oxytocin and prolactin in human relationships, and how these hormones influence feelings of love and attachment.

Stealing and the Search for Love July 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jenny, Sarah, Stephanie D'Ambra, Susan

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind stealing, particularly in children and adolescents. He discusses how stealing can stem from a lack of love and attention, and how societal influences can shape behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of teaching children about honesty and the consequences of their actions. He also highlights the emotional struggles faced by those who steal, suggesting that it often reflects deeper issues of self-worth and belonging. Through various anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to consider the underlying factors that drive individuals to take what is not theirs, ultimately framing stealing as a desperate search for love and acceptance.

Bitterness and Relationships June 18, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of bitterness and its impact on relationships. He discusses the American Psychiatric Association’s interest in ‘bitterness syndrome’ and examines how hormonal responses, particularly prolactin, can affect intimacy and connection between partners. Through various anecdotes and discussions with callers, he emphasizes the importance of understanding the biological and emotional factors that contribute to relationship challenges. Armand encourages listeners to fight for their relationships and to seek deeper connections, despite the societal and biological pressures that may lead to disconnection.

Trust and Trustworthiness June 17, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of trust and trustworthiness. He discusses the psychological need to trust others and the challenges of being seen as trustworthy. Through anecdotes and examples, he highlights how trust can be manipulated and the importance of integrity in relationships. Armand also addresses the difficulties faced by individuals who struggle with trust due to past experiences and societal influences. The conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own trust issues and the qualities that make someone trustworthy.

Practical Steps for Negotiating Fairness June 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. B. Janet Hibbs, Dr. William Peter Atwood

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of fairness in relationships with Dr. B. Janet Hibbs and Dr. William Peter Atwood. They explore how our upbringing shapes our perceptions of fairness and the importance of trust in relationships. The conversation delves into common pitfalls couples face, such as quid pro quo negotiations and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. The guests share practical exercises for couples to improve communication, recognize injustices, and foster appreciation, ultimately aiming to create a healthier dynamic in their partnerships.

Significance and Childhood Fantasies April 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of significance and its impact on our lives, particularly through the lens of childhood fantasies. He discusses how feelings of insignificance can stem from family dynamics and societal expectations, leading to anxiety and a desperate need for recognition. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own childhood dreams and the ways these aspirations connect to their current sense of self-worth. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show highlights the importance of acknowledging our desires for significance and the ways we can find fulfillment in our lives.

Masks We Wear When Wounded April 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne Marganow, Claudia Fox, Diane, Matilda, Susie

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of vulnerability and the masks we wear to hide our wounds. He discusses how individuals often project strength and confidence, especially during job searches or family gatherings, despite feeling hurt inside. Through anecdotes and a poignant poem, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the emotional toll of pretending to be okay. He emphasizes the importance of authenticity and the burden of maintaining a facade, encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves and seek genuine connections. The episode serves as a reminder that vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships and personal growth.

Exploring Basic Human Needs April 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Camille, Denny, Felicia, Giuseppe, Heidi, Stephanie D'Ambra, Tony

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the fundamental human needs of certainty, uncertainty, significance, and connection. Drawing inspiration from Tony Robbins, he explores how these needs influence our lives and relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of balancing certainty and uncertainty, highlighting how both are essential for growth and fulfillment. Through engaging conversations with callers, he delves into personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own needs and the dynamics of their relationships. The show aims to foster a deeper understanding of how these needs shape our interactions and emotional well-being.