Why do we want to be lied to? Armand DiMele uses the Bernie Madoff scandal as a jumping-off point to argue that humans are wired for deception, both giving and receiving it. Drawing on primate research and brain science, he explores the fine line between healthy trust and paranoid suspicion.
What if the post-boom economic collapse is a form of societal manic depression? Armand DiMele tests this hypothesis with Dr. Bernard Starr, PhD and psychiatrist and author Dr. Ronald Fieve, examining cortisol, testosterone, double depression, and why telling a depressed person to “buck up” never works.
Rigid, perfectionistic people crack hardest when life goes wrong, and Armand DiMele explains why. He distinguishes OCD from obsessive-compulsive personality disorder, showing how the desperate need to be right drives indecision, relationship conflict, explosive anger, and hoarding, and how admitting fallibility is the way out.
Our brains are wired for efficiency, but those same shortcuts can get us killed. Lawrence Gonzalez, Author of “Everyday Survival,” joins Armand DiMele to examine how mental models, automated behavior, and cultural complacency lead smart people into serious danger, from plane crashes to financial collapse.
Growing old is feared more than death itself, and that fear may be largely a cultural illusion. Armand DiMele and Dr. Bernard Starr examine how longevity has reshaped society, why research shows older people are often more satisfied than expected, and how a shift in ego and time-consciousness can make aging a genuine liberation.
Romantic love is not just an emotion but a neurochemical drive as powerful as addiction. Armand DiMele presents and reflects on anthropologist Helen Fisher’s fMRI research showing that love, rejection, and even long-term attachment all light up the brain’s reward and risk circuitry in ways that reframe how we understand desire, jealousy, and lasting partnership.
A rigid mind is the root of most psychological suffering, from addiction to depression to PTSD. Armand DiMele argues that mental flexibility, the willingness to take in new information and break habitual patterns, is the single quality that separates a stuck life from an open one. Callers test the idea live.
Fear, not laziness, drives chronic procrastination. Armand DiMele talks with Gloria Aronson, author of “Procrastination Nation,” about the false beliefs keeping people stuck, from fear of failure and success to childhood shame, and how to trace avoidance back to its earliest roots.
Why does a more expensive pill relieve more pain? Dr. Dan Ariely, behavioral economist and author of ‘Predictably Irrational,’ joins Armand DiMele to explain how expectations shape everything from placebo responses to romantic choices, including why insecurity becomes an aphrodisiac for those driven by fear of abandonment.
Rejection is wired into our DNA as a survival mechanism, but some people’s rejection radar is far too sensitive, turning minor slights into emotional crises. Armand DiMele traces rejection sensitivity from evolutionary roots to modern overpraise culture, body image anxiety, and the self-fulfilling prophecy of paranoid withdrawal. Callers share vivid personal examples.
