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What Drives Us with Nick Papadopoulos January 15, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Nick Papadopoulos
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Personal Growth & Change

Early childhood wounds quietly shape adult behavior. Nick Papadopoulos, Success Counselor, joins Armand DiMele to map how formative events between ages 5 and 20 generate core beliefs like “I don’t belong” that drive adult behavior, and how four personality types (controller, promoter, supporter, analyzer) reveal what we’re really chasing.

Dominance and Submission in Relationships December 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Love & Romantic Relationships

Why do people who fight passionately for others surrender control at home? Armand DiMele argues that submission carries hidden rewards, chiefly freedom from decision-making and a longing for parental nurturing, while dominance often masks deep feelings of powerlessness. Callers share their own struggles with unequal partnerships.

Dignity and Self-Respect with Dr. Majid Ali September 18, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Majid Ali
Category: Identity & The Self, Personal Growth & Change

Cheating the system quietly erodes self-respect, and most people mask that erosion through justification and denial. Armand traces how small compromises accumulate into a loss of dignity, links that pattern to unprocessed childhood pain, and speaks with Dr. Majid Ali, Physician, about how physical health and self-perception are intertwined.

Funny Thinking September 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Personal Growth & Change

Irrational thinking is the hidden engine of unhappiness. Armand DiMele walks through nearly twenty common cognitive distortions, from needing universal approval to believing everyone else is happy but you, drawing on rational emotive therapy and his own clinical stories to show how funny thinking fuels emotional distress.

Nobody Can Reject You September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Identity & The Self

Rejection is not a feeling, it is a perception, and that distinction changes everything. Armand DiMele argues that “feeling rejected” is a cover story for deeper truths about loneliness, narcissism, and the emotional habits laid down in childhood. People who overreact to rejection are often those least at peace with themselves.

Honesty Fear and the Loss of Self September 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Communication & Conflict, Identity & The Self

Protecting people from the truth slowly erases who you are. Armand DiMele argues that fear of hurting others’ feelings drives chronic self-suppression, indecision, and blame, tracing how the habit often begins in family dynamics and quietly hollows out a person’s sense of self.

Generosity and Stinginess August 27, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Identity & The Self

Generous people live with a sense of unlimited possibility while stingy people hoard out of fear, including fear of death. Armand DiMele argues that giving can be an act of aggression and withholding an act of love, and that wealth has almost nothing to do with which type you are.

The Art of Mentoring with Esther Armand August 14, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Armand
Category: Personal Growth & Change, Society, Culture & Current Events

Esther Armand, producer and WBAI colleague, brings a Ghanaian Ashanti perspective to the question of why Americans struggle with mentoring. She argues that supporting others is not a special act but a natural function of community, and shares her work helping formerly incarcerated young women discover their own strength through media and storytelling.

Why We Resist Change August 13, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Andrew Phillips, Giullian Gioiello
Category: Emotions & Inner Life, Personal Growth & Change

Change is inevitable, but transition is psychological and far slower than the physical event. Armand DiMele breaks down why people cling to the status quo, why being changed against your will hurts more than choosing change yourself, and how to use the uncertain in-between period as a space for growth. Co-host Giullian Gioiello joins the conversation.

Addiction as a Survival Strategy August 8, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrew Tatarski, Deborah Hillman, Dr. Harold Urschel, Emily Anthes, Roberta Maria Atzi
Category: Addiction & Compulsion, Identity & The Self

Addiction is not weakness but a misfired survival mechanism rooted in perceived isolation. Armand DiMele and co-host Roberta Maria Atti trace compulsive behaviors, from substance abuse to sex and food addiction, back to what they call the refugee syndrome, drawing on interviews with Dr. Deborah Hillman, MD, Dr. Andrew Tatarsky, Addiction Psychologist, Dr. Harold Urschel, Author, and science journalist and author Emily Anthes.