Category: The Mind & Neuroscience

The Three Modes of Thinking Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Mingyi, Pierre, Troy

Armand DiMele, with co-hosts Ben Starr and Giullian Gioiello, lays out a three-part framework for how the mind works: pathological thinking (emotion-driven and invisible to itself), logical thinking (pure comparison, no feeling), and psychological thinking (intellect in harmony with emotion). Callers bring the theory to life, revealing how denied feelings quietly hijack everyday thought.

How Hearing Changes as We Age Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Hearing isn’t just physical, it’s psychological. Armand DiMele explains how the ear literally bifurcates with age, making it harder to attend to competing sounds, and how emotional states like depression or childhood fear shape what we allow ourselves to hear.

How Mirror Neurons Shape Empathy Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Mirror neurons fire as if you are doing what you merely observe, and that single fact explains empathy, art, sports fandom, and psychic-seeming intuition. Armand and co-host Roberta Maria Atti trace the discovery from a researcher in Parma watching a monkey mimic his coffee sip, then connect it to personality types, great athletes, and the secret of why pizza vanishes at parties.

Romance and the Evolution of Courtship Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Why did romance evolve at all? Armand DiMele argues that human courtship rituals grew directly from a biological turning point: females hiding estrus to survive early pregnancies. From firefly flash patterns to candlelight dinners, he traces how that ancient adaptation shaped the whole vocabulary of seduction.

Mating Intelligence and the Love Delusion Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Iris Reiner

Why are humans biologically wired to deceive each other and themselves in love? Armand DiMele unpacks “mating intelligence,” covering how men misread smiles as sexual interest, how women strategically lie about sexual history, and how dopamine-fueled delusion actually helps couples bond. Researcher Iris Reiner and Christine Ulrich join to connect attachment theory and the DRD4 gene to adult romantic security.

Thinking as Emotional Discharge Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Thinking is not neutral reflection but a behavior the mind uses to discharge uncomfortable feelings before they overwhelm us. Armand DiMele walks through his feelings-impulses-behaviors model, with co-hosts Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, and a caller’s story about a protest march illustrates how beauty and solidarity can break through emotional shutdown.