The Positive Mind

Category: Human Behavior Insights

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Fear of Being Trapped July 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fundamental human instincts related to the fear of being trapped, both physically and emotionally. He discusses how this fear manifests in various aspects of life, from relationships to financial responsibilities, and highlights the importance of finding escape routes, whether through vacations or personal growth. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling trapped and the instinctual need for freedom and flexibility. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences of feeling confined and to consider the necessity of change and escape in their lives.

The End June 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of home, discussing its dual nature as a place of safety and love. He reflects on the evolution of humanity from cave dwellers to modern society, emphasizing the importance of social interaction and play for mental and emotional growth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he highlights the significance of creating a nurturing environment that fosters connection and joy. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by children today in finding time for unstructured play, and the impact of societal pressures on personal relationships and well-being.

Genius of Instinct June 16, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Henry Weisinger, Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with author Henry Weisinger, who discusses his book ‘The Genius of Instinct.’ They explore the role of instincts in human behavior, emphasizing how these hardwired tools have evolved to help us thrive rather than merely survive. Weisinger identifies six key instincts: shelter seeking, care soliciting, caregiving, beautifying, cooperation, and curiosity. The conversation delves into how these instincts manifest in our lives and relationships, and the importance of embracing vulnerability for personal growth and connection.

Exploring Basic Human Needs April 21, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Camille, Denny, Felicia, Giuseppe, Heidi, Stephanie D'Ambra, Tony
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the fundamental human needs of certainty, uncertainty, significance, and connection. Drawing inspiration from Tony Robbins, he explores how these needs influence our lives and relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of balancing certainty and uncertainty, highlighting how both are essential for growth and fulfillment. Through engaging conversations with callers, he delves into personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own needs and the dynamics of their relationships. The show aims to foster a deeper understanding of how these needs shape our interactions and emotional well-being.

Everyday Survival November 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lawrence Gonzalez
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with author Lawrence Gonzalez about his book, ‘Everyday Survival,’ which explores why intelligent people often make poor decisions. Through engaging stories, including a rattlesnake encounter and the tragic airline crash post-9/11, Gonzalez discusses the mental models and behavioral scripts that can lead to complacency and dangerous situations. He emphasizes the importance of critical thinking, curiosity, and awareness in navigating modern life, especially in a world filled with distractions and fear. The conversation touches on the need for individuals to wake up from their complacency and be more alert to their surroundings.

Voices and Communication July 9, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the significance of voice in communication, drawing parallels between human vocalization and that of songbirds. He discusses how different vocal qualities can influence perception and interaction, emphasizing the importance of tonal variation and breath control. Through examples from nature and personal anecdotes, Armand highlights how our voices can convey emotions and intentions, impacting relationships and social dynamics. The episode also includes practical exercises for improving vocal skills and awareness, aiming to enhance listeners’ communication effectiveness in various aspects of life.

Understanding the Intensely Private Person March 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intensely private individuals, particularly children, who often retreat into their own worlds to avoid emotional overwhelm. He discusses how societal pressures and family dynamics can contribute to this intense privacy, leading to a lack of close relationships and emotional detachment. Armand highlights the importance of recognizing these traits in oneself and others, emphasizing that while privacy can foster creativity, it can also lead to social phobia and loneliness. The episode encourages listeners to understand and support those who may struggle with intense privacy.

Homeland Insecurity and Love February 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the theme of ‘Homeland Insecurity’ during WBAI’s fund drive, exploring how threats can shake our spirits. He delves into the complexities of love, discussing three types: love, lust, and limerence, while emphasizing the importance of understanding love’s dynamics. Joined by researcher Stephanie D’Ambra, they examine the nature of love sickness and the impact of unrequited love. The conversation highlights the fragility of the human spirit and the necessity of accepting different forms of love. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Space and Human Behavior January 18, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the multifaceted concept of space, discussing its significance in human behavior and social interactions. They delve into various types of space, including personal, public, and intimate spaces, and how these affect our relationships and feelings of safety. The hosts examine studies on proxemics, the psychological implications of crowded environments, and the evolution of workspace design, such as cubicles. Through engaging anecdotes and observations, they highlight how our perceptions of space influence our daily lives and interactions with others.

Understanding Your Three Instincts December 27, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the three fundamental instincts that shape human behavior: self-preservation, social, and sexual. He discusses how these instincts influence our relationships and interactions, particularly during social gatherings and personal connections. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding which instinct dominates our lives, as this knowledge can lead to better self-awareness and healthier relationships. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, he highlights the balance needed between these instincts for a fulfilling life.