Why does desire so rarely move us the way pain does? Armand DiMele and Christine Ulrich, a molecular biologist turned certified life coach, dig into the mechanics of change, exploring how coaches use whole-life assessment, probing questions, and pattern recognition to help clients reach goals they cannot reach alone.
Good-looking people get better parenting, higher grades, and lighter legal treatment. Armand and Dr. Kent Robertshaw, MD, psychiatrist, examine how physical appearance shapes self-worth from infancy onward, why beautiful people face their own insecurities, and how body dysmorphic disorder keeps sufferers chasing fixes that never resolve the underlying wound.
Does the drive to be noticed make us miserable, or is feeling significant essential to mental health? Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone, LCSW, trace the line between healthy agency and egotism, explore how depression strips away a sense of mattering, and ask what we might discover if we stopped trying to be seen.
Drawing on Dr. Loren Brizantine’s research, Armand DiMele and co-researcher Lauren Sykes walk through the biological roots of women’s emotional sensitivity, hormonal cycles, maternal bonding, perimenopause, and how these forces shape behavior across a woman’s entire lifespan. Callers share vivid personal stories.
Irritability is a lie, Armand argues: it always points back to unexpressed anger from the recent past, not the present annoyance. Callers processing Hurricane Irene illustrate how collective fear gets manufactured and internalized, and how presence and love are the only real antidotes.
Most people would rather struggle alone than ask for help, and Armand DiMele digs into why. Drawing on Jung’s archetype of the beggar, he traces the fear of asking to three roots: surrender of control, shame of appearing flawed, and the deep belief that no one is truly there for you. Callers bring the ideas to life.
Oxytocin bonds us to partners and tribes, but new research suggests the same chemical that makes us trust also makes us exclude outsiders. Armand DiMele unpacks this paradox, arguing that deep love can quietly shrink a person’s world, and callers share their own experiences of friendships lost to relationships.
Surviving hardship is only half the story. Armand DiMele talks with Daphne Rose Kingma, Psychotherapist and Author, about her book on navigating life’s worst moments, from job loss to sudden illness. They argue that real recovery demands genuine grief, honest self-inventory, and a willingness to let the old self die so something new can emerge.
Why are so many people medicating their own physical and emotional pain, and what are the risks? Armand DiMele and Dr. Kent Robertshaw, MD, psychiatrist, trace the shift from doctor-dependent care to self-treatment, covering everything from nutrition to Vicodin abuse among teens, and explore when self-care empowers and when it becomes a dangerous substitute for professional help.
Armand DiMele maps out what to do when someone you care about lashes out unfairly. Rather than fighting back, he argues for showing genuine hurt, explaining why tears disarm anger more effectively than counter-attack, and why most rage burns itself out in about 22 minutes if you stop feeding it.
