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Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

Understanding Why People Leave July 15, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex reasons why individuals may not return to a service or relationship, exploring themes of fear, hidden agendas, and the societal prohibition against leaving. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the three R’s: referrals, repeats, and reputation, which are crucial for building lasting connections. Through anecdotes and insights, Armand highlights how people’s reluctance to express dissatisfaction often stems from a desire to avoid confrontation and protect their own narcissism. This episode aims to provide listeners with tools to foster better communication and improve their personal and professional relationships.

Understanding Hormones and Relationships September 4, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of hormones like prolactin and dopamine and their effects on human behavior, particularly in relationships and sexual dynamics. He discusses the implications of trust issues stemming from past experiences and how they can impact current relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own emotions and the biochemical influences that shape our reactions. He encourages listeners to seek knowledge and remain curious about the science behind their feelings and behaviors.

Punishment and the Fear of Being Punished June 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between punishment and the psychological fears that stem from childhood experiences. He discusses how individuals often carry a sense of impending punishment throughout their lives, affecting their mental health and relationships. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal stories that illustrate how fears of abandonment, control, and self-worth are intertwined with past traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these fears to lead a more positively minded life.

Physical Attractiveness and Beauty Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of physical attractiveness and beauty with psychiatrist Kent Robertshaw. They explore societal perceptions of beauty, the impact of attractiveness on self-esteem and behavior, and the psychological implications for those who feel less attractive. The conversation delves into research findings on how beauty influences parenting, criminal behavior, and social interactions. They also touch on personal experiences and the emotional struggles individuals face regarding their self-image. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of beauty and self-worth.