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Mindfulness and Emotional Awareness October 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of mindfulness and emotional awareness with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanilla and Giullian Gioiello. They explore the benefits and pitfalls of mindfulness, emphasizing the importance of processing negative emotions rather than suppressing them. The conversation delves into the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships, the dangers of triangulation in family dynamics, and the necessity of honesty in personal connections. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their emotions, confront their past, and seek genuine connections with others.

Living the High Road April 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘living the high road’ as inspired by his friend Ricky Rohr. He discusses the complexities of human relationships, particularly how neuroses can sometimes serve as strengths. Armand delves into various personality disorders and their impact on relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these dynamics. He encourages listeners to reflect on their motivations and the power they derive from their interactions, ultimately advocating for a more peaceful and self-aware approach to life and relationships.

Family Secrets and Their Impact August 17, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of family secrets and their profound effects on relationships. He discusses how secrets can divide families, create misunderstandings, and freeze emotional development. The conversation highlights the importance of timing and context when revealing secrets, emphasizing that while some secrets can foster bonds, others can lead to lasting emotional scars. Armand shares insights from his experience as a therapist, illustrating the delicate balance between keeping and revealing secrets within families. The episode encourages listeners to consider the impact of secrets on their own lives and relationships.

Triangulation in Family Dynamics December 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of triangulation within family dynamics, particularly how children often become caught between parental conflicts. He discusses the psychological implications of this behavior, including the roles of good and bad parents, and how these dynamics can affect adult relationships. Through listener calls, the conversation delves into personal experiences of triangulation, the challenges of familial loyalty, and the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these patterns. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and self-reflection to break free from these cycles.

Father’s Day Reflections June 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of fatherhood and the emotional impact fathers have on their children. With Father’s Day approaching, he discusses the often unresolved feelings many individuals harbor towards their fathers, including anger, disappointment, and longing for connection. Through personal anecdotes and listener calls, Armand encourages reflection on the nature of fathering, the importance of understanding one’s feelings, and the potential for healing. The conversation delves into various aspects of father-child relationships, emphasizing the significance of both positive and negative experiences in shaping one’s identity.

Understanding Systems Theory March 23, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of systems theory, emphasizing the importance of viewing individuals within the context of their family systems. He discusses how behaviors, such as a child’s depression or acting out, often reflect the dynamics of the entire family rather than just the individual. Through various examples, including the impact of parental depression on children and the roles individuals play within family systems, Armand illustrates how understanding these relationships can lead to healing. He also touches on the implications of medication like Ritalin and the need for a holistic approach to treatment.