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Happiness and Resistance December 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the complex nature of happiness and the psychological resistance that often hinders personal growth. They discuss the myriad of self-help resources available on happiness, the prevalence of depression, and the significant financial investments people make in search of joy. The conversation delves into the concept of the ‘engineer’ within us, which protects us from change and the unknown. Through dialogue and acceptance, the hosts encourage listeners to confront their resistance and embrace the journey towards a more fulfilling life.

Morality and Judgment March 12, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of morality and judgment, drawing on psychological theories from Freud and Eric Berne. He discusses the id, ego, and superego, and how these concepts influence our understanding of right and wrong. The conversation delves into moral dilemmas, societal judgments, and the impact of neuroscience on our ethical decisions. Through various examples, including controversial topics like war and personal relationships, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own moral beliefs and the influences that shape them.

Punishment and the Fear of Being Punished June 22, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between punishment and the psychological fears that stem from childhood experiences. He discusses how individuals often carry a sense of impending punishment throughout their lives, affecting their mental health and relationships. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal stories that illustrate how fears of abandonment, control, and self-worth are intertwined with past traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding these fears to lead a more positively minded life.

Secrets June 21, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of secrets and their impact on mental health. He highlights the importance of revealing secrets to alleviate emotional burdens, sharing insights from psychology and personal stories. The conversation touches on how secrets can affect relationships and individual well-being, particularly in the context of trauma and personal experiences. Armand encourages listeners to call in and share their secrets, emphasizing the healing power of openness and honesty.

Childhood Sexual Abuse and Its Impact December 1, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Christine Courtois

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the sensitive and challenging topic of childhood sexual abuse with counseling psychologist Dr. Christine Courtois. They explore the complexities of incest, the definition of consent, and the long-term effects of such trauma on survivors. Dr. Courtois shares insights from her research and clinical experience, highlighting the psychological and physical repercussions of abuse, as well as the importance of addressing both victims and offenders in treatment. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness, prevention, and support for those affected by these issues.

Motherhood, Raising Children and Struggling with Depression Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tracy Thompson

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the often-overlooked issue of maternal depression with author Tracy Thompson. They explore the complexities of motherhood and the emotional toll it can take on women, highlighting the difference between postpartum depression and ongoing maternal depression. Tracy shares insights from her book, ‘The Ghost in the House,’ which delves into the struggles mothers face and the societal pressures that contribute to their mental health challenges. The conversation emphasizes the importance of support systems, open communication, and understanding within families to help mothers cope with their experiences.

Caregiving and Caregetting Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella, Lisa Arnone

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with a panel of guests, including Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ The conversation explores the emotional challenges faced by caregivers, the dynamics of family involvement, and the importance of communication in managing relationships during times of illness. The guests share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the difficult decisions surrounding caregiving, while emphasizing the need for self-care and the potential for resentment in these roles. The episode aims to provide listeners with practical tools and understanding to foster healthier caregiving relationships.

Making Everyone Happy Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Casey, Giullian Gioiello, Joy, Linda Vanella, Marguerite, Naina Ervin, Richard, Roberta Maria Acchi, Seema, Tarun

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of trying to make others happy, especially during the holiday season. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they explore the emotional toll it takes on individuals who feel responsible for the happiness of those around them. The conversation touches on personal experiences, societal expectations, and the challenges faced when one’s efforts to please others go unrecognized. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the balance between self-care and the desire to make others happy.

Emotions and the Five-Path Process Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Cindy Brielotta

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of emotions and feelings with hypnotherapist Cindy Brielotta. They explore the Five-Path Process, which helps individuals confront and understand their emotions, including anger, fear, and guilt. Cindy explains the importance of feeling emotions fully and how they drive behavior. The conversation delves into age regression, the informed child technique, and the significance of forgiveness—both of others and oneself. Listeners learn that true healing comes from acknowledging and processing emotions rather than suppressing them.