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New Year’s Reflections on Relationships December 31, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional complexities surrounding relationships as the year comes to a close. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore themes of love, guilt, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals may stay in relationships out of obligation, the significance of New Year’s Eve in reflecting on past relationships, and the struggles of navigating feelings of loneliness and desire for closeness. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics and the emotional toll they may carry into the new year.

Betrayal January 21, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Giullian Gioiello delve into the complex topic of betrayal, exploring its various forms and the emotional toll it takes on individuals. They discuss historical examples, such as the betrayals of Jesus by Judas and Caesar by Brutus, and how these stories resonate with personal experiences of infidelity and deception. The conversation highlights the psychological aspects of betrayal, including self-betrayal, guilt, and the impact on relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the nature of trust in their lives.

Anger, Aggression, and Passive Aggression September 11, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of anger, aggression, and passive-aggressive behavior. He discusses how these traits manifest in relationships and society, particularly in the context of political and personal interactions. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and expressing anger in healthy ways, while also addressing the impact of passive-aggressive behavior on relationships. He provides insights into how to confront such behaviors constructively and the significance of trust in fostering meaningful connections. The episode also touches on the themes of fear and suffering, particularly in light of current events.

Being Honest Without Hurting Feelings September 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the delicate balance between being truthful and being sensitive to others’ feelings. He explores how the fear of hurting loved ones can lead to dishonesty and emotional disconnect. Through various examples, he highlights the importance of self-awareness and the consequences of not being true to oneself. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the impact of their honesty or lack thereof. Ultimately, the conversation aims to foster understanding and promote healthier communication in personal connections.

Psychopathy and Betrayal August 28, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex themes of psychopathy and betrayal, discussing how individuals with psychopathic traits can impact their communities more than those with full-blown psychopathy. He delves into the nature of betrayal, its psychological effects, and how societal norms can shape our understanding of trust and loyalty. Through engaging anecdotes and philosophical insights, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences with betrayal and the importance of self-awareness in relationships. He emphasizes the need for vigilance and understanding in love, while also addressing the cultural nuances surrounding betrayal.

Exploring the Concept of Sin Across Religions June 6, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex topic of sin as viewed through various religious lenses. Joined by researcher Lisa Arnone, they discuss the implications of sin in Christianity, Judaism, Buddhism, and Islam, exploring themes of morality, guilt, and repentance. The conversation touches on how different cultures define sin, the consequences of sinful actions, and the potential for forgiveness. With engaging anecdotes and thought-provoking questions, this episode invites listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the nature of sin in their lives.

Caregiving and Its Challenges April 17, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with Dr. Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ They explore the emotional toll on caregivers, the dynamics of care in relationships, and the importance of communication. Dr. Denholm shares insights from her personal experiences and offers practical tools for caregivers to manage their feelings of anger, resentment, and guilt. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding between caregivers and those they care for, highlighting the shared journey of love and support during challenging times.

Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Secrets We Keep December 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of secrets we keep from ourselves, our families, and our partners. He discusses how societal norms and personal fears can lead to hidden truths that affect our relationships and emotional well-being. Through various examples, including secrets about sexuality and family dynamics, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these hidden aspects of our lives. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own secrets and the impact they have on their lives and relationships.

Organizing and Clutter March 9, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Barbara Tako, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of organizing and clutter with expert Barbara Tako, author of ‘Clutter Clearing Choices.’ They explore the different types of clutter—physical, mental, emotional, and relational—and how it can affect our lives. Barbara shares insights on when clutter becomes problematic and offers practical strategies for decluttering, including the four-box method. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of clutter, including its ties to feelings of safety and the impact of consumerism. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own clutter and consider how it may relate to their emotional well-being.