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Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Tolerance January 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of tolerance, exploring its definitions, implications, and the role it plays in our relationships and society. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into how tolerance can be both a personal and societal challenge, emphasizing the importance of understanding and accepting differing opinions and behaviors. The conversation touches on the balance between tolerance and setting boundaries, the impact of upbringing on our capacity for tolerance, and how self-acceptance is crucial for fostering tolerance towards others. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own levels of tolerance and the factors that influence it.

Love is the Grease on the Gears of Life December 27, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essential role of love in our lives, likening it to grease that keeps the gears of life moving smoothly. He discusses how love, in its various forms—be it romantic, familial, or platonic—can rejuvenate our spirits and keep us engaged in life. Armand shares insights on the dynamics of relationships, the challenges of maintaining love over time, and how the traits that initially attract us to partners can later become sources of frustration. With guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Michael Jessen, he delves into the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication and understanding in overcoming disillusionment.

Exploring the 20-Something Generation August 25, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique characteristics of the 20-something generation with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Lauren Sykes. They explore how societal changes have led to a prolonged adolescence, with young adults delaying traditional milestones like marriage and home ownership. The conversation delves into the impact of cultural shifts, economic factors, and the role of technology in shaping the identities and choices of today’s youth. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding this generation’s perspective and the need for intergenerational dialogue.

Crowd Behavior and Control July 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of crowd behavior, challenging the common perception of crowds as unruly mobs. He discusses how the need for belonging influences individual actions within groups and reflects on historical events, such as protests and public gatherings, to illustrate how crowd control measures can sometimes exacerbate tensions. Through various theories of crowd psychology, including convergence theory, Armand emphasizes that people in crowds often exhibit cooperation and civility rather than chaos. He invites listeners to share their own experiences with crowds and the emotions tied to them.

Hatred: An Exploration January 22, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotion of hatred, exploring its roots and implications in our lives. He discusses how hatred differs from anger, emphasizing its deep-seated nature and the impact it has on relationships and self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages a candid examination of this often-taboo emotion, suggesting that understanding hatred can lead to personal growth and emotional healing. The episode also touches on the interplay between love and hatred, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing these feelings.

Exploring Midlife Crisis and Relationships July 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses various psychological insights related to midlife crises, relationships, and societal beliefs. He examines recent research linking midlife crises in men to their wives’ experiences with menopause, challenging politically correct notions. The conversation also touches on the implications of polygamy in different cultures, the motivations behind sexual relationships, and the emotional burdens carried by individuals. DeMille invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences and encourages open dialogue about these complex topics.

Homeland Insecurity and Love February 9, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the theme of ‘Homeland Insecurity’ during WBAI’s fund drive, exploring how threats can shake our spirits. He delves into the complexities of love, discussing three types: love, lust, and limerence, while emphasizing the importance of understanding love’s dynamics. Joined by researcher Stephanie D’Ambra, they examine the nature of love sickness and the impact of unrequited love. The conversation highlights the fragility of the human spirit and the necessity of accepting different forms of love. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Understanding Emotions from an Evolutionary Perspective December 7, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the intricacies of human emotions through the lens of evolutionary psychology. They discuss how emotions like fear, jealousy, and sadness have developed as survival mechanisms, helping humans navigate complex social environments. The hosts explore various emotional states, including aversion to physical abnormalities, shadow mourning, and schadenfreude, providing insights into why we experience these feelings. By understanding the evolutionary roots of our emotions, listeners can gain a deeper acceptance of their emotional responses and learn to navigate them more effectively in daily life.

Holiday Feasts and Family Traditions November 23, 2005

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Psychology of Food

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atin explore the significance of holiday feasts and family gatherings. They discuss the psychological and anthropological aspects of food traditions, the importance of rituals, and how shared meals foster connections among people. The conversation touches on the evolution of food symbolism, the emotional resonance of meals, and the role of cooking in maintaining family ties. They also address the feelings of loneliness some may experience during the holidays and suggest ways to connect with others, even in unconventional ways.