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Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Understanding Anxiety, Excitement, and Fear March 19, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. William Astwood

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele and co-host Dr. William Astwood delve into the complexities of anxiety, excitement, and fear. They explore the physiological responses associated with these emotions, discussing how they can often feel overwhelming and confusing. The hosts aim to demystify these experiences, providing insights into the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems and how they relate to our emotional states. With over 25 years of experience in mental health, they share practical knowledge to help listeners gain better control over their emotions and understand the underlying mechanisms of anxiety disorders.

Fear and Its Many Forms August 9, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the pervasive nature of fear and its various manifestations, from general apprehension to specific phobias and paranoia. Drawing from his experience on Wall Street, he explores how fear can arise from perceived threats, both external and internal. The conversation delves into the impact of fear on personal relationships, trust, and decision-making, highlighting the fine line between healthy caution and debilitating anxiety. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own fears and the role they play in their lives.

Understanding Stress and Obsessive-Compulsive Personality November 13, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of stress and how it manifests in our lives, particularly through obsessive-compulsive behaviors. He differentiates between obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD), highlighting the emotional turmoil and perfectionism that often accompany these conditions. Armand discusses the impact of internal and external stressors, the compulsive behaviors that arise from anxiety, and the challenges faced by individuals with OCPD in their relationships and decision-making processes. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster better mental health and interpersonal connections.

Understanding the Intensely Private Person March 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intensely private individuals, particularly children, who often retreat into their own worlds to avoid emotional overwhelm. He discusses how societal pressures and family dynamics can contribute to this intense privacy, leading to a lack of close relationships and emotional detachment. Armand highlights the importance of recognizing these traits in oneself and others, emphasizing that while privacy can foster creativity, it can also lead to social phobia and loneliness. The episode encourages listeners to understand and support those who may struggle with intense privacy.

Powerlessness and Helplessness November 8, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of powerlessness and helplessness, particularly in the context of political and personal struggles. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore how feelings of powerlessness can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety and social phobia. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling out of control and the importance of recognizing one’s rights and entitlements. They emphasize that while powerlessness is a common human experience, acknowledging it can lead to personal growth and healing.

Reputation July 26, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of reputation and its impact on our lives. He discusses how our names and identities are perceived in the digital age, the importance of reputation in social dynamics, and the ways it can shape our interactions. Through anecdotes and listener calls, Armand delves into the complexities of reputation, including the pressures to conform and the potential for personal betrayal. He emphasizes the need for self-awareness and authenticity in navigating the often superficial judgments of society.

Doubting People January 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the psychology of doubters—individuals who live with suspicion and fear of losing everything. He discusses how childhood experiences shape their skepticism and the impact of lacking trust in themselves and others. DeMille highlights the paradox of doubters seeking security while simultaneously fearing intimacy and vulnerability. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and gently supporting these individuals, as they often yearn for connection but are terrified of being overwhelmed. The episode delves into the complexities of doubt, trust, and the human experience.

Idiopathic Craniofacial Erythema Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex emotions of shame and embarrassment, particularly in relation to suicide. He discusses the impact of societal expectations and personal experiences on mental health, highlighting the struggles faced by individuals, including Afghan women and Japanese citizens. Through various personal stories and cultural insights, the episode delves into how shame can lead to self-destructive behaviors and the importance of understanding and addressing these feelings. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with shame and to seek connection and support.