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Rebellion September 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Ramey

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of rebellion, discussing its importance in personal growth and development. He reflects on his childhood experiences and the concept of conformity, sharing anecdotes about adolescents’ struggles against authority. Joined by guests Alex and Ramey, they delve into their own experiences with rebellion, the pressures of school and work, and the significance of standing up for oneself. The conversation highlights how rebellion can manifest in various forms and the vital role it plays in shaping identity and independence.

Affection January 18, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of affection and its significance in relationships. He discusses the various forms of affection, including nurturing, play, and the importance of touch, particularly for the elderly. The conversation highlights how affection can impact mental health and the ways in which cultural differences shape our understanding of affection. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with affection and its role in their lives, emphasizing the need for connection and the potential consequences of its absence.

Understanding the Psychopath September 16, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Stephanie D’Ambra delve into the complex mind of a psychopath, exploring the characteristics that define this personality disorder. They discuss the lack of empathy, impulsivity, and manipulative behaviors often associated with psychopaths, as well as the neurological underpinnings revealed through modern imaging techniques. The conversation also touches on the societal implications of psychopathy, including its prevalence in prisons and the challenges of rehabilitation. Listeners gain insights into the emotional traits and behaviors that can help identify psychopaths in everyday life.

Understanding Manners and Etiquette September 23, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Sherri Siegel to explore the complexities of manners and etiquette in contemporary society. They discuss the differences between various forms of dementia and how they affect behavior, particularly in terms of social interactions. The conversation delves into the evolution of manners over time, the impact of cultural changes, and the importance of compassion and understanding in social settings. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own experiences with etiquette and to consider the significance of respect and kindness in everyday interactions.

Stealing and the Search for Love July 9, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jenny, Sarah, Stephanie D'Ambra, Susan

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind stealing, particularly in children and adolescents. He discusses how stealing can stem from a lack of love and attention, and how societal influences can shape behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of teaching children about honesty and the consequences of their actions. He also highlights the emotional struggles faced by those who steal, suggesting that it often reflects deeper issues of self-worth and belonging. Through various anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to consider the underlying factors that drive individuals to take what is not theirs, ultimately framing stealing as a desperate search for love and acceptance.

Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

Understanding Deceit and Trust December 23, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of deceit and trust in human relationships, using the case of Bernie Madoff as a springboard for discussion. He delves into the psychology behind why people may choose to trust others, even in the face of potential deceit. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and research findings, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with trust and deception. He poses thought-provoking questions about the nature of belief and the societal implications of deceit, inviting audience participation to share their insights.

Everyday Survival November 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lawrence Gonzalez

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with author Lawrence Gonzalez about his book, ‘Everyday Survival,’ which explores why intelligent people often make poor decisions. Through engaging stories, including a rattlesnake encounter and the tragic airline crash post-9/11, Gonzalez discusses the mental models and behavioral scripts that can lead to complacency and dangerous situations. He emphasizes the importance of critical thinking, curiosity, and awareness in navigating modern life, especially in a world filled with distractions and fear. The conversation touches on the need for individuals to wake up from their complacency and be more alert to their surroundings.

Body Piercing and Tattoos June 18, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie Roth

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the cultural significance of body piercings and tattoos with guest Stephanie Roth, a specialist in adolescent psychology. They explore the rising trend of body modifications, examining statistics on piercings among young adults and the psychological motivations behind them. Roth shares insights on how piercings can serve as a form of self-expression and a way to reclaim lost identity or bodily autonomy. The conversation also touches on the implications of tattoos, impulsivity in decision-making, and the deeper meanings behind these forms of body art.

Understanding the Intensely Private Person March 25, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intensely private individuals, particularly children, who often retreat into their own worlds to avoid emotional overwhelm. He discusses how societal pressures and family dynamics can contribute to this intense privacy, leading to a lack of close relationships and emotional detachment. Armand highlights the importance of recognizing these traits in oneself and others, emphasizing that while privacy can foster creativity, it can also lead to social phobia and loneliness. The episode encourages listeners to understand and support those who may struggle with intense privacy.