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Interpreting Dreams and Human Relationships March 14, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of sexuality and familial connections. He discusses how early experiences with parents can shape adult behavior, especially in romantic contexts. The conversation delves into the motivations behind sexual encounters, the search for nurturing figures, and the impact of trauma on intimacy. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the deeper meanings behind their relationships and desires.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Bonk: The Science of Sex Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Mary Roach, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes Mary Roach, author of ‘Bonk’, to discuss the fascinating world of sexual science. They explore the history of sex research, the complexities of human sexuality, and the groundbreaking studies of pioneers like Kinsey and Masters & Johnson. Mary shares insights from her book, including the mechanics of sexual response, the significance of orgasm, and the often humorous aspects of sexual exploration. The conversation delves into societal attitudes towards sex, the challenges of studying it scientifically, and the importance of open dialogue about human sexuality.

Whip Smart Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Melissa Febos

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Melissa Febos, author of ‘Whip Smart,’ a memoir detailing her experiences as a professional dominatrix in Manhattan. The conversation explores the complexities of power dynamics, the psychology behind BDSM, and the societal perceptions of sex work. Febos shares insights into her journey of self-discovery, the emotional intricacies of her clients, and the blurred lines between empowerment and exploitation in the sex industry. The discussion also touches on the therapeutic aspects of her work and the impact it had on her personal relationships and understanding of intimacy.