The Positive Mind

Keyword: selflessness

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Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel
Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Exploring Happiness and Emptiness October 4, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alexandra Beller, Nicholas Vreeland
Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with choreographer Alexandra Beller and Nicholas Vreeland, director of the Tibet Center, to discuss the complex relationship between happiness and emptiness. They explore societal perceptions of happiness, the impact of external validation, and the importance of inner contentment. Beller shares insights from her dance work, while Vreeland emphasizes the significance of self-reflection and the teachings of the Dalai Lama, who will be speaking at Radio City Music Hall. The conversation delves into the nature of happiness, the pitfalls of seeking pleasure, and the transformative power of understanding one’s self.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel
Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Exploring Love Styles November 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love, discussing various love styles including ludus, storge, pragma, agape, and manic love. He highlights how these styles manifest in relationships and their psychological implications. Armand emphasizes the significance of understanding these different forms of love to navigate personal relationships effectively. He also engages with callers, sharing insights on how love can be both a source of joy and confusion, particularly in the context of mental health. The discussion aims to provide listeners with a deeper understanding of love’s multifaceted nature.

Pi Day Celebrations and Birthday Reflections March 14, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele
Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages listeners in a lively discussion about birthdays, Pi Day, and the significance of celebrating life. He invites callers to share their birthday stories, both joyful and challenging, while reflecting on the importance of connection and appreciation. The conversation touches on personal experiences with family dynamics, the joy of giving, and the bittersweet nature of birthdays for some. Armand emphasizes the value of community and the power of sharing our stories, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere for listeners.