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Tax Day Reflections April 15, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Giullian Gioiello discuss the complexities of taxes, both financial and personal. They explore the psychological reasons behind tax reluctance, the burdens of responsibility, and the metaphorical taxes we pay in life, such as emotional labor in relationships and societal expectations. The conversation touches on various tax rates around the world, the impact of taxes on personal freedom, and the importance of understanding the emotional costs associated with our choices. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own ‘taxes’ in life and how they navigate these challenges.

New Year’s Reflections on Relationships December 31, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional complexities surrounding relationships as the year comes to a close. Joined by guests Giullian Gioiello and Ben Starr, they explore themes of love, guilt, and the impact of societal expectations on personal connections. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals may stay in relationships out of obligation, the significance of New Year’s Eve in reflecting on past relationships, and the struggles of navigating feelings of loneliness and desire for closeness. The episode encourages listeners to examine their own relationship dynamics and the emotional toll they may carry into the new year.

Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Loneliness and Connection July 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex feelings of loneliness and connection, discussing how modern technology, like the internet, can both alleviate and exacerbate feelings of isolation. The conversation delves into statistics about loneliness among older adults and personal anecdotes about forming connections through gaming and other means. Listeners share their experiences and thoughts on loneliness, revealing the emotional struggles that come with feeling isolated, even in the presence of others. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the need for genuine connections.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Dignity and Self-Respect September 18, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Majid Ali

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of dignity and its relationship with self-respect. He discusses how individuals often abdicate their dignity through justifications and denial, particularly in the context of cheating and exploitation. Through anecdotes and reflections, he emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s self-worth and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. The conversation also touches on the societal pressures that affect dignity, particularly in relation to health issues like diabetes and the emotional struggles faced by individuals. Ultimately, Armand encourages listeners to confront their realities and restore their sense of dignity.

Rejection September 4, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of rejection and its impact on our lives. He explores how rejection is often perceived as a negative experience, leading to feelings of worthlessness and disappointment. However, he argues that rejection is not an emotion but a perception of someone’s behavior. DeMille encourages listeners to examine their feelings and reactions to rejection, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and understanding. He also delves into the roots of creativity and how it can be stifled by societal expectations, urging listeners to embrace their creative spirit as a means of personal growth and fulfillment.

Fundraising Drive July 11, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Audrey Clark, Lisa Arnone

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele, along with guests Lisa Arnone and Audrey Clark, explores the complexities of love and the challenges of allowing oneself to be loved. They discuss the importance of self-acceptance and the difficulties of navigating relationships, particularly when it comes to dependency and the fear of vulnerability. Through personal anecdotes and listener letters, the conversation delves into the themes of lovability, emotional struggles, and the societal pressures surrounding relationships. The episode emphasizes the need for self-care and understanding in fostering healthy connections with others.

Money Makes the World Go Round March 20, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Nick Papadopoulos

Category: Money and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses attitudes towards money with guest Nick Papadopoulos, a coach specializing in financial mindset. They explore how personal experiences and familial relationships shape our perceptions of money, emphasizing that many feelings of financial inadequacy stem from attitudes rather than actual circumstances. The conversation delves into the societal meanings attached to money, the difference between abundance and scarcity mindsets, and how these perspectives influence financial decisions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own money attitudes and consider how to shift towards a more empowering view.

Expectations and Their Impact January 24, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of expectations and their effects on our emotional well-being. He explains how unmet expectations can lead to stronger negative feelings compared to the positive feelings derived from fulfilled expectations. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores the importance of adaptability and resilience in managing expectations. The discussion also touches on the psychological implications of expectations in relationships and personal achievements, emphasizing the need to balance hope with realistic outcomes.