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New Year, New Thinking January 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanelli explore the concept of new thinking as we enter a new year, moving away from traditional resolutions. They discuss the importance of self-reflection and the wisdom found in the poem ‘Desiderata’ by Max Ehrmann, emphasizing themes such as peace, self-acceptance, and the value of maintaining good relationships. The conversation delves into the challenges of modern life, the significance of being gentle with oneself, and the need to nurture one’s spirit amidst chaos. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their individuality and strive for happiness while navigating life’s complexities.

Occupy Your Mind November 29, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of mental health, discussing concepts like apathy disorder and post-traumatic bitterness disorder. He reflects on the societal pressures that lead individuals to question their sanity and the various ways people cope with their mental struggles. Through engaging conversations and listener calls, Armand emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the journey toward mental stability. He also touches on mindfulness practices and the role of therapy in achieving a sense of calm and happiness. The episode invites listeners to confront their inner challenges and seek a deeper understanding of themselves.

Shelf Life of Mental Health October 20, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of mental health and its potential shelf life. He discusses how past behaviors and fears can resurface unexpectedly, drawing on personal anecdotes and insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Lauren Sykes. The conversation delves into the idea of recidivism in mental health, examining how experiences from our youth can re-emerge as we age. The episode also touches on the importance of awareness and proactive mental health checkups, as well as the role of support groups in navigating these challenges.

Fear of Close Relationships October 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the reasons behind people’s fear of forming close relationships. He discusses how past experiences and childhood conditioning can lead to a reluctance to love and connect with others. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these fears and understanding that love should not be equated with pain or control. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and to seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships. The episode also touches on the dynamics of control in relationships and the role of victimhood in emotional connections.

Shelf Life of Mental Health September 20, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of mental health having a ‘shelf life’ and how past issues can resurface unexpectedly. He discusses the phenomenon of recidivism in mental health, where individuals may revert to old behaviors or fears despite having previously overcome them. Through personal anecdotes and insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Lauren Sykes, the conversation delves into the complexities of mental health, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of external factors in triggering past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the ongoing journey of mental well-being.

Bringing You Ideas for a Positively Minded Life September 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of emotional variation in life and how our childhood experiences shape our coping strategies. He explores various defense mechanisms such as repression, regression, and dissociation, emphasizing how these adaptations can lead to emotional struggles in adulthood. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own emotional responses and the impact of societal pressures on their mental well-being. The program also touches on the significance of communication in relationships, particularly in the age of text messaging, and how it can affect emotional connections.

Ignoring People and Being Ignored August 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of being ignored and the act of ignoring others. He discusses how these behaviors can stem from childhood experiences and societal expectations, with insights on passive-aggressive tendencies and the need for attention. Through various anecdotes and examples, including the challenges faced in medical settings and personal relationships, the conversation delves into the emotional impact of feeling invisible. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with being ignored and the importance of communication in relationships.

Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Reactions to Catastrophe March 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amhara, Anthony, Daphne Rose Kingma, Dr. Ronald Fieve, Linda Vanella, Monroe, Pat Moffitt, Vincent

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the varied human reactions to catastrophic events, particularly focusing on the recent disasters in Japan. He explores cultural differences in responses, emphasizing the Japanese values of security and harmony. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into personal experiences of fear, helplessness, and the quest for understanding in the face of tragedy. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own reactions and the importance of compassion in times of crisis.