Keyword: self-presentation

Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

How We Present Ourselves December 1, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-presentation and interpersonal relationships with guests Giullian Gioiello, Ben Starr, Elizabeth, Rina, and Anna. The discussion delves into how individuals project their identities, the roles they assume in different contexts, and the underlying needs that drive these presentations. The guests share personal insights on the balance between vulnerability and strength, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-image. As they navigate through themes of acceptance and the masks we wear, the conversation reveals the intricate dance of human connection.

Communication and Anxiety in the Digital Age September 24, 2014

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of modern communication methods, particularly cell phones and social media, on anxiety and interpersonal relationships. Joined by guests Michael Jessen, Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Giullian Gioiello, and Ben Starr, the conversation delves into how constant connectivity can lead to increased nervousness and a sense of danger. The group explores the implications of digital communication on personal connections, the nature of thinking, and the societal expectations surrounding immediate responses. They also reflect on the balance between technology and genuine human interaction, questioning whether the digital age enhances or detracts from our emotional well-being.

Talking Styles and the Human Voice August 29, 2012

In this episode, host Armand DiMele welcomes voice specialist Elizabeth Sastry to discuss the nuances of talking styles and how they reflect our personalities. They explore various speech patterns, including deferential, dramatic, and worrisome styles, and how these can influence communication and relationships. The conversation delves into the importance of understanding one’s voice and the rhythm of speech, while also touching on the duality of human emotions. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their own speech patterns and consider how they affect their interactions with others.

Radical Thinking, The Null Hypothesis June 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kenny Baron, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Sherri Siegel

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘null hypothesis’ in relationships, suggesting that people often choose partners based on their ‘false selves’ rather than their true identities. He discusses how societal pressures and childhood experiences shape our adaptive selves, leading individuals to present curated versions of themselves to their partners. Through a series of engaging dialogues with guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Sherri Siegel, the show delves into the complexities of love, acceptance, and the challenges of revealing one’s true self in intimate relationships.

Symbols and Their Impact on Our Lives April 29, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of symbols and how they shape our perceptions and interactions. He discusses the significance of symbols in our lives, from authority figures to personal relationships, and how they can evoke strong emotions and reactions. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and psychological insights, Armand invites listeners to reflect on the symbols they embody and encounter in their daily lives. The conversation also touches on the importance of understanding oneself and the impact of symbols on our relationships.

Learning About Adaptation and Deception in Nature and Humans March 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Ati explore the concept of adaptation and deception both in nature and among humans. They discuss various examples from the animal kingdom, such as the wounded bird and the ball fish, to illustrate how creatures adapt their appearances and behaviors for survival. The conversation transitions to human behavior, examining the imposter syndrome and factitious disorders, where individuals may alter their identities or exaggerate illnesses to gain attention or acceptance. The hosts emphasize the importance of understanding these behaviors within the context of social expectations and personal insecurities.

Radical Ideas in Psychology Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships and the psychological constructs that influence how we perceive love and value. He discusses the idea that people often present a façade to gain affection and acceptance, questioning the authenticity of these interactions. Drawing on historical psychological theories and personal anecdotes, he emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and the need to understand what we offer to others in relationships. The conversation touches on the commodification of emotional connections and the significance of being valued for our true selves.