Keyword: self-improvement

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Cultivating a Positive Mindset June 20, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, host Armand DiMele and guest Lisa Arnone explore the concept of resilience and personal growth. They discuss the importance of awareness in recognizing one’s mental state and the journey toward self-knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the need for introspection and understanding one’s thoughts and feelings without judgment. They outline three stages of growth: awareness, knowledge, and personal change, highlighting how individuals can learn to appreciate their realities and make positive changes in their lives. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their journey of self-discovery and the beauty of personal growth.

Expectations and Their Impact January 24, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex nature of expectations and their effects on our emotional well-being. He explains how unmet expectations can lead to stronger negative feelings compared to the positive feelings derived from fulfilled expectations. Through various examples, including personal anecdotes and listener calls, the conversation explores the importance of adaptability and resilience in managing expectations. The discussion also touches on the psychological implications of expectations in relationships and personal achievements, emphasizing the need to balance hope with realistic outcomes.

New Year, New Thinking January 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanelli explore the concept of new thinking as we enter a new year, moving away from traditional resolutions. They discuss the importance of self-reflection and the wisdom found in the poem ‘Desiderata’ by Max Ehrmann, emphasizing themes such as peace, self-acceptance, and the value of maintaining good relationships. The conversation delves into the challenges of modern life, the significance of being gentle with oneself, and the need to nurture one’s spirit amidst chaos. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their individuality and strive for happiness while navigating life’s complexities.

New Thinking for a Positive Life January 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanellitini explore the importance of new thinking as we enter a new year. They discuss the concept of ‘Desiderata’ by Max Ehrmann, reflecting on its timeless wisdom about peace, self-acceptance, and the pursuit of happiness. The hosts delve into various themes such as the impact of comparison, the significance of being true to oneself, and the balance between ambition and contentment. They encourage listeners to embrace their uniqueness and find joy in their achievements while navigating the complexities of life.

Ideas for a Positively Minded Life November 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of mental health and aging with Kent Robertshaw and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanellis. They explore the impact of psychiatric conditions, the importance of medication, and the role of nutrition in improving mental well-being. The conversation touches on how relationships can influence happiness and the significance of self-acceptance as we age. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the ways they can foster a more positive mindset, despite the challenges they may face.

Mindset February 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Carol Dweck

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Carol Dweck, a renowned psychologist and author of ‘Mindset.’ They explore the concepts of fixed and growth mindsets, discussing how these perspectives influence personal development, relationships, and reactions to challenges. Dweck emphasizes the importance of fostering a growth mindset in children to help them embrace challenges and learn from failures. The conversation also touches on the implications of mindset in various contexts, including education, parenting, and even societal issues like bullying. Through engaging dialogue, the episode highlights how mindset shapes our experiences and interactions.

My Mind is Not Always My Friend September 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra, Stephen Fogle

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of the mind and how it can sometimes work against us. Joined by guests Stephen Fogle and Stephanie D’Ambra, they explore themes of overreacting, the influence of past experiences on present behavior, and the importance of self-awareness in managing our thoughts. Fogle shares insights from his book, emphasizing that our minds can be both friends and foes, depending on how we interpret our experiences. The conversation delves into the chemistry of the brain, the role of the amygdala, and practical strategies for recognizing and addressing negative thought patterns.

Money, Parenting, and Nature vs. Nurture September 7, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationship between money, happiness, and parenting. He explores research suggesting that happiness increases with income up to $75,000, while also addressing the challenges parents face in nurturing their children. Joined by guest Stephanie D’Ambra, they delve into the nature versus nurture debate, examining how genetic predispositions and environmental factors shape behavior and personality. The conversation highlights the struggles of parenting, the impact of genetics on children’s outcomes, and the resilience some children exhibit despite difficult circumstances. Tune in for insights on parenting, emotional well-being, and the interplay of nature and nurture.

Self-Hatred and Acceptance August 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of self-hatred, discussing how it often stems from childhood experiences and societal pressures. He delves into the behaviors of passive-aggressive individuals and the self-blame that can accompany such actions. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding the inner child. The conversation highlights how self-criticism can lead to a cycle of negativity, and Armand encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and seek validation from within rather than from external sources.