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Facade and First Impressions December 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Anne-Marie, Ben Starr, David Travland, Dr. Joe Ledoux, Giullian Gioiello, Hanara, Patricia Miranda, Roger, Steve

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests explore the concept of facades—the outward appearances we present to others when meeting for the first time. They discuss the various motivations behind these facades, whether meeting potential friends, romantic partners, or business associates. The conversation delves into personal experiences, insecurities, and the complex emotions tied to how we want to be perceived. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own facades and what they reveal about their true selves.

How We Present Ourselves December 1, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Dr. Annalisa Erba, Elizabeth Gould, Giullian Gioiello, Rina

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of self-presentation and interpersonal relationships with guests Giullian Gioiello, Ben Starr, Elizabeth, Rina, and Anna. The discussion delves into how individuals project their identities, the roles they assume in different contexts, and the underlying needs that drive these presentations. The guests share personal insights on the balance between vulnerability and strength, the importance of authenticity, and the impact of societal expectations on self-image. As they navigate through themes of acceptance and the masks we wear, the conversation reveals the intricate dance of human connection.

Communication and Anxiety in the Digital Age September 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael Jessen

Category: Digital Communication & Relationships

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of modern communication methods, particularly cell phones and social media, on anxiety and interpersonal relationships. Joined by guests Michael Jessen, Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Giullian Gioiello, and Ben Starr, the conversation delves into how constant connectivity can lead to increased nervousness and a sense of danger. The group explores the implications of digital communication on personal connections, the nature of thinking, and the societal expectations surrounding immediate responses. They also reflect on the balance between technology and genuine human interaction, questioning whether the digital age enhances or detracts from our emotional well-being.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Understanding Withdrawn Personalities January 22, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of withdrawn personality types through an insightful interview with Enneagram experts Don Riso and Russ Hudson. They discuss the three withdrawn types: the Investigator (Type 5), the Peacemaker (Type 9), and the Individualist (Type 4). Each type’s unique characteristics, coping mechanisms, and emotional landscapes are examined, highlighting how these personalities navigate their inner worlds and relationships. The conversation sheds light on the complexities of withdrawal, emotional expression, and the longing for connection.

Understanding Personality Types and Human Experience October 23, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Erin Oberlander, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human personality types, focusing on the continuum from narcissism to psychopathy. He explores how these traits manifest in individuals, particularly in the context of therapy and personal relationships. With insights from guests Dr. Erin Oberlander and Lisa Arnone, the conversation delves into the importance of understanding emotional states and the dynamics of transference in therapy. The episode emphasizes the necessity of compassion and connection in mental health practices, while also addressing the challenges faced by both professionals and clients in navigating these intricate personality traits.

Evolution of Emotions July 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the evolution of emotions and their impact on human behavior. He discusses how childhood emotions can persist into adulthood, examining various emotional states such as fear, anger, and anxiety. Drawing on Charles Darwin’s research, he highlights the evolutionary significance of emotions and their expressions. The conversation delves into the complexities of emotional development, the role of social interactions, and the importance of understanding emotional changes over time. Armand emphasizes the need for awareness and support in navigating emotional challenges throughout life.

Dependency and Autonomy July 5, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of dependency and autonomy, particularly in the context of relationships and personal development. He explores the characteristics of dependent personalities, the impact of excessive dependency, and the importance of autonomy for emotional health. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into the nuances of dependency, its effects on individuals, and how it can manifest in relationships. The conversation touches on the balance between needing support and fostering independence, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and personal growth.

Radical Thinking, The Null Hypothesis June 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kenny Baron, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘null hypothesis’ in relationships, suggesting that people often choose partners based on their ‘false selves’ rather than their true identities. He discusses how societal pressures and childhood experiences shape our adaptive selves, leading individuals to present curated versions of themselves to their partners. Through a series of engaging dialogues with guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Sherri Siegel, the show delves into the complexities of love, acceptance, and the challenges of revealing one’s true self in intimate relationships.

How Do People Perceive You? March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of self-perception and how others perceive us. He discusses the importance of understanding how we are viewed by those around us, whether they see us as trustworthy, invisible, or as a resource. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into the nuances of relationships and the impact of our actions and words on how we are perceived. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own identities and the stories they tell about themselves, ultimately questioning the gap between self-image and external perception.