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Emotions and Fear January 29, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexity of emotions, focusing on fear as a primary feeling that many struggle with. He discusses how anxiety can lead to a sense of danger and the desire for security, often resulting in avoidance behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing these feelings rather than suppressing them. Through listener interactions, he highlights the commonality of these experiences and encourages individuals to confront their fears and seek understanding. The conversation delves into the interplay between personal history and emotional responses, aiming to empower listeners to lead a more positively minded life.

Motivation and Connection January 15, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Nick Papadopoulos

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Nick Papadopoulos explore the motivations behind human behavior and the importance of connection. They discuss how early life experiences shape our perceptions and relationships, leading to feelings of isolation and the need for attention. Nick shares insights on how individuals can become aware of their motivations and develop healthier relationships, both personally and professionally. The conversation emphasizes the significance of connection in overcoming feelings of loneliness and despair, and how awareness can empower individuals to make positive changes in their lives.

Being Honest Without Hurting Feelings September 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the delicate balance between being truthful and being sensitive to others’ feelings. He explores how the fear of hurting loved ones can lead to dishonesty and emotional disconnect. Through various examples, he highlights the importance of self-awareness and the consequences of not being true to oneself. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own relationships and the impact of their honesty or lack thereof. Ultimately, the conversation aims to foster understanding and promote healthier communication in personal connections.

Understanding Assertive Energy April 10, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses assertive energy, focusing on the Enneagram personality types, particularly types 3, 7, and 8. The conversation delves into the characteristics of assertive individuals, exploring how their energy manifests in various ways. Type 8, known as the Challenger, is characterized by its intense, direct energy and strong boundaries. Type 7, the Enthusiast, is portrayed as vibrant and restless, always seeking new experiences to avoid feelings of emptiness. Lastly, type 3, the Achiever, is driven by ambition and the need for validation, often masking deeper feelings of inadequacy. The episode highlights the complexities of these personality types and their interactions.

Understanding Withdrawn Personalities January 22, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of withdrawn personality types through an insightful interview with Enneagram experts Don Riso and Russ Hudson. They discuss the three withdrawn types: the Investigator (Type 5), the Peacemaker (Type 9), and the Individualist (Type 4). Each type’s unique characteristics, coping mechanisms, and emotional landscapes are examined, highlighting how these personalities navigate their inner worlds and relationships. The conversation sheds light on the complexities of withdrawal, emotional expression, and the longing for connection.

Introspection and the Art of Self-Discovery January 15, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of introspection and the importance of self-awareness. He discusses how understanding our unconscious mind can lead to personal growth and better decision-making. By reframing self-evaluation as a means of categorizing our thoughts and feelings, listeners are encouraged to embrace their complexity without self-criticism. DeMille emphasizes the need for curiosity and the value of relationships in understanding ourselves. The episode invites listeners to engage in a journey of self-discovery, highlighting that the unconscious mind plays a significant role in shaping our behaviors and choices.

Exploring Love and Bonding November 8, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of love and bonding, exploring how humans seek affection and connection through various behaviors and personality types. He discusses the role of oxytocin in creating feelings of attachment and how different strategies, such as perfectionism, caregiving, and performance, influence our relationships. Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own motivations and the dynamics of love, encouraging listeners to reflect on how they are loved and how they love others. The discussion also touches on the Enneagram personality types and their impact on interpersonal connections.

Bringing You Ideas for a Positively Minded Life September 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of emotional variation in life and how our childhood experiences shape our coping strategies. He explores various defense mechanisms such as repression, regression, and dissociation, emphasizing how these adaptations can lead to emotional struggles in adulthood. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own emotional responses and the impact of societal pressures on their mental well-being. The program also touches on the significance of communication in relationships, particularly in the age of text messaging, and how it can affect emotional connections.

Ignoring People and Being Ignored August 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of being ignored and the act of ignoring others. He discusses how these behaviors can stem from childhood experiences and societal expectations, with insights on passive-aggressive tendencies and the need for attention. Through various anecdotes and examples, including the challenges faced in medical settings and personal relationships, the conversation delves into the emotional impact of feeling invisible. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with being ignored and the importance of communication in relationships.

Capgras Syndrome and Depersonalization April 19, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jeffrey Abugel, Linda Vanella

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses Capgras Syndrome, a condition where individuals believe their loved ones are imposters. Joined by Jeffrey Abugel, who shares his experiences with depersonalization disorder, they explore the psychological implications of feeling disconnected from oneself and reality. The conversation delves into the symptoms, causes, and potential treatments for these complex disorders, emphasizing the emotional struggles faced by those affected. The episode highlights the importance of understanding these conditions and offers hope for recovery through therapy and medication.