Keyword: self-criticism

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Inner Voices and Obsessive Compulsions Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the complexities of inner voices and their impact on our lives. They discuss the nature of inner wisdom, the role of obsessive-compulsive disorders, and the influence of early childhood experiences on our mental health. The conversation delves into various types of obsessions, including scrupulosity, and how these voices can both protect and hinder us. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own inner dialogues and the hidden compulsions that shape their behaviors.

Lessons for Psychotherapists Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the unique insights gained from the practice of psychotherapy and how they can be applied to everyday life. He emphasizes the importance of personal knowledge and self-awareness in fostering positive change. DeMille introduces the concept of ‘criminal intention’—the hidden motivations behind our actions that often lead to dysfunctional relationships. Through personal anecdotes and examples, he encourages listeners to explore their own intentions and the impact they have on their lives and relationships. This episode serves as a guide for self-discovery and understanding the deeper layers of our behavior.

Emotional Fitness and Stamina Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Vivian Wolsk

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Vivian Wolsk, a clinical psychologist, about the concept of emotional fitness and how to better understand and manage our feelings. They discuss the importance of identifying emotions, the signs of emotional flabbiness, and the techniques of Gestalt therapy, including the empty chair technique. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-acceptance, positive self-talk, and the integration of mind, body, and spirit in emotional well-being. Listeners are encouraged to engage in self-nurturing practices and to confront negative programming in their lives.

Understanding Bullies and Their Impact Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephen B. Rosenstein

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of bullying, both external and internal, with guest Stephen B. Rosenstein, author of ‘Taming Your Inner and Outer Bullies.’ They discuss how bullies often reflect their own pain and self-hatred, and how societal influences shape bullying behavior. The conversation delves into the psychological roots of bullying, the impact of childhood experiences, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking the cycle of victimization. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own relationships and the dynamics of power and aggression.