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Hindsight Bias and Habit Management April 2, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of hindsight bias and its implications on decision-making and self-confidence. He explores how our tendency to believe we knew outcomes all along can lead to overconfidence, particularly in entrepreneurs. The conversation shifts to habit management, emphasizing the importance of replacing bad habits with good ones. Techniques from positive psychology are shared, including the idea of scheduling bad habits and rewarding successes. The episode also touches on the role of yoga and mindfulness in managing habits, encouraging listeners to connect with their higher selves for personal growth.

Focusing and Listening with Dr. Eugene Gendlin July 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Eugene Gendlin

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Eugene Gendlin, the creator of the Focusing technique, which emphasizes the importance of tuning into bodily sensations to gain deeper insights into our emotions and experiences. Gendlin explains how Focusing allows individuals to connect with their authentic selves by paying attention to the physical sensations in their bodies. The conversation also explores the concept of listening, highlighting the significance of being present and empathetic when others express their feelings. Gendlin shares practical insights on how to navigate emotions and the critic within us, ultimately guiding listeners toward a more positive and self-aware life.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.

Introspection and the Art of Self-Discovery January 15, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of introspection and the importance of self-awareness. He discusses how understanding our unconscious mind can lead to personal growth and better decision-making. By reframing self-evaluation as a means of categorizing our thoughts and feelings, listeners are encouraged to embrace their complexity without self-criticism. DeMille emphasizes the need for curiosity and the value of relationships in understanding ourselves. The episode invites listeners to engage in a journey of self-discovery, highlighting that the unconscious mind plays a significant role in shaping our behaviors and choices.

Psychology for Therapists: Part Seven July 31, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone continue their series on psychology tailored for therapists. They delve into the complexities of self-inquiry, emphasizing the importance of asking the right questions about one’s feelings and behaviors. Armand discusses how individuals often struggle with understanding their emotions and the dynamics of therapy. He highlights the significance of recognizing dependency, stages of growth, and the resistance to change that many face. The episode encourages listeners to explore deeper questions about themselves, moving beyond surface-level inquiries to uncover underlying motivations and feelings.

Cultivating a Positive Mindset June 20, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, host Armand DiMele and guest Lisa Arnone explore the concept of resilience and personal growth. They discuss the importance of awareness in recognizing one’s mental state and the journey toward self-knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the need for introspection and understanding one’s thoughts and feelings without judgment. They outline three stages of growth: awareness, knowledge, and personal change, highlighting how individuals can learn to appreciate their realities and make positive changes in their lives. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their journey of self-discovery and the beauty of personal growth.

Smart But Feeling Dumb March 2, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Harold Levinson

Category: Mental Health Challenges

In this episode, Armand DiMele interviews Dr. Harold Levinson, a specialist in dyslexia and related disorders. Dr. Levinson discusses his new book, ‘Smart But Feeling Dumb,’ which explores the complexities of dyslexia, ADHD, and phobias. He emphasizes that many individuals with these conditions often feel inadequate despite their intelligence. Dr. Levinson challenges traditional definitions of dyslexia, suggesting that inner ear issues may play a significant role in these disorders. Through his research, he highlights the interconnectedness of symptoms and the importance of understanding the underlying neurological mechanisms. The conversation delves into treatment options, including medications and therapies that address the inner ear’s influence on cognitive functions.

Alter Selves and Psychological Functioning March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of alter selves and their impact on psychological functioning, particularly in relation to addiction and behavior disorders. He discusses how individuals often dissociate from their true selves in response to stress, trauma, or emotional challenges, creating alternate personalities that manage these experiences. Through anecdotes and insights from his extensive experience in psychotherapy, DeMille encourages listeners to recognize and befriend these alter personalities rather than criticize them. This approach may lead to better self-understanding and healing.

Understanding Feelings and Thoughts December 14, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the critical distinction between feelings and thoughts, emphasizing how often people confuse the two. He discusses the four basic feelings—sad, mad, glad, and bad—and explains how feelings manifest in the body. Armand elaborates on the concepts of impulses and behaviors, illustrating how individuals often suppress their feelings through thoughts and actions. He highlights the importance of allowing oneself to fully experience emotions in therapy to prevent complications in mental health. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their feelings and understand the relationship between emotions and thoughts.

Self-Hatred and Acceptance August 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of self-hatred, discussing how it often stems from childhood experiences and societal pressures. He delves into the behaviors of passive-aggressive individuals and the self-blame that can accompany such actions. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding the inner child. The conversation highlights how self-criticism can lead to a cycle of negativity, and Armand encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and seek validation from within rather than from external sources.