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Shelf Life of Mental Health September 20, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of mental health having a ‘shelf life’ and how past issues can resurface unexpectedly. He discusses the phenomenon of recidivism in mental health, where individuals may revert to old behaviors or fears despite having previously overcome them. Through personal anecdotes and insights from guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Lauren Sykes, the conversation delves into the complexities of mental health, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of external factors in triggering past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider the ongoing journey of mental well-being.

Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Protecting Others and Ourselves August 10, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joseph, Linda Vanella, Lynn, Tom Bond, Yvonne

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex motivations behind the desire to protect others, often stemming from our own insecurities and fears. He discusses how individuals may attach themselves to those they feel compelled to protect, sometimes as a means of safeguarding their own emotional well-being. Through various anecdotes and examples, including relationships affected by addiction and mental health challenges, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their protective instincts and the potential consequences of overextending themselves. The conversation delves into the Enneagram’s three instincts—self-preservation, social, and sexual—and how they influence our relationships and sense of safety.

Risk and Its Impact on Life July 20, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of risk and how it evolves throughout life. He discusses how children learn about danger and risk through experiences, and how adults often become more risk-averse as they age. The conversation delves into the psychology behind risk-taking, the thrill associated with it, and the implications of avoiding risks. Armand emphasizes the importance of managing risks effectively, especially as one grows older, and highlights the need for individuals to engage in activities that promote emotional and physical well-being.

Emotions and Aging July 12, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationship between serotonin levels and depression, particularly in the elderly. He explores the concept of neurogenesis—the birth of new brain cells—as a potential key to understanding and treating depression. Armand challenges the traditional view that low serotonin levels are the primary cause of depression, highlighting that many people with low serotonin do not experience depression. He emphasizes the importance of exercise, learning, and enriched environments in promoting neurogenesis and improving emotional well-being. The episode also touches on the role of fear and obsessive-compulsive behaviors in managing depression.

Elder Abuse Awareness and Discussion June 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the often-overlooked topic of elder abuse, exploring its various forms, including physical, emotional, financial, and neglect. He reflects on the changing perceptions of elders in society, the importance of work for maintaining purpose, and the alarming statistics surrounding elder abuse. The conversation emphasizes the need for awareness and action to protect vulnerable older adults, encouraging listeners to recognize signs of abuse and to advocate for better care and respect for the elderly. Armand also shares personal anecdotes and insights from callers, highlighting the emotional complexities involved in caring for aging loved ones.

Altered Personalities and the Real You March 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of altered personalities and how they affect our perception of self. He discusses the idea that many people carry around different versions of themselves, often shaped by experiences and societal expectations. Through engaging dialogue, he examines how these alter selves can emerge in various situations, such as during moments of fear or when facing life changes. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own alter personalities and the impact they have on their lives, relationships, and overall well-being.

Feeling Good: Understanding the Chemistry of Emotions January 13, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Elemy, Lauren Sykes, Richard Christensen

Category: Mind and Mood Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of feeling good, emphasizing that it is a chemical state rather than just a mental one. He discusses how our feelings are influenced by various chemicals released in the brain, such as dopamine and oxytocin, and how activities like exercise, yoga, and even eating can impact our emotional state. Armand encourages listeners to be specific about their feelings and to recognize that feeling good can often be the absence of pain. He invites feedback from listeners on what makes them feel good, setting the stage for future discussions on the chemistry of emotions.

Year-End Reflections on Family and Friends December 30, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this year-end edition, Armand DiMele explores the significance of resolutions, particularly the common desire to spend more time with family and friends. He discusses the feelings of loneliness and depression that often accompany the holiday season and emphasizes the importance of nurturing connections. Armand reflects on the complexities of friendships and family dynamics, highlighting how relationships can change over time. He encourages listeners to reach out to friends and maintain positive connections, suggesting that meaningful interactions can enhance well-being. As the year closes, he invites everyone to reflect on their relationships and the importance of community.

Understanding Feelings and Thoughts December 14, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the critical distinction between feelings and thoughts, emphasizing how often people confuse the two. He discusses the four basic feelings—sad, mad, glad, and bad—and explains how feelings manifest in the body. Armand elaborates on the concepts of impulses and behaviors, illustrating how individuals often suppress their feelings through thoughts and actions. He highlights the importance of allowing oneself to fully experience emotions in therapy to prevent complications in mental health. The episode encourages listeners to embrace their feelings and understand the relationship between emotions and thoughts.