Keyword: self-blame

Psychology for Therapists: Part Seven July 31, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone continue their series on psychology tailored for therapists. They delve into the complexities of self-inquiry, emphasizing the importance of asking the right questions about one’s feelings and behaviors. Armand discusses how individuals often struggle with understanding their emotions and the dynamics of therapy. He highlights the significance of recognizing dependency, stages of growth, and the resistance to change that many face. The episode encourages listeners to explore deeper questions about themselves, moving beyond surface-level inquiries to uncover underlying motivations and feelings.

Self-Hatred and Acceptance August 24, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex topic of self-hatred, discussing how it often stems from childhood experiences and societal pressures. He delves into the behaviors of passive-aggressive individuals and the self-blame that can accompany such actions. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding the inner child. The conversation highlights how self-criticism can lead to a cycle of negativity, and Armand encourages listeners to embrace their true selves and seek validation from within rather than from external sources.

Stress and Strain: Understanding the Nature of Stress March 25, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Bernie Stahl

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the dual nature of stress, emphasizing its importance in life while also addressing its potential to lead to strain and mental breakdown. Joined by Dr. Bernie Stahl, they explore how stress can be beneficial when managed properly, and the dangers of allowing it to accumulate without proper acknowledgment. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of stress, the importance of feeling and expressing pain, and the concept of resilience in coping with life’s challenges. Listeners are encouraged to confront their stressors and embrace their emotions for better mental health.