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Ideas for a Positively Minded Life November 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw, Linda Vanella

Category: Mind-Body Wellness Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of mental health and aging with Kent Robertshaw and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanellis. They explore the impact of psychiatric conditions, the importance of medication, and the role of nutrition in improving mental well-being. The conversation touches on how relationships can influence happiness and the significance of self-acceptance as we age. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the ways they can foster a more positive mindset, despite the challenges they may face.

Ben Starr Behind His Voices August 23, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Randy Kay

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Randy Kay, author of ‘Ben Starr Behind His Voices,’ about her journey as a mother navigating the complexities of her son’s schizophrenia. Randy shares her experiences of recognizing early warning signs, the challenges of diagnosis, and the emotional toll of parenting a child with mental illness. The conversation highlights the importance of education, support systems like NAMI, and the necessity of establishing boundaries while maintaining hope for recovery. Through her story, Randy offers insights into the struggles and triumphs of families dealing with mental health issues.

Dependency and Autonomy July 5, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of dependency and autonomy, particularly in the context of relationships and personal development. He explores the characteristics of dependent personalities, the impact of excessive dependency, and the importance of autonomy for emotional health. Joined by guest Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, they delve into the nuances of dependency, its effects on individuals, and how it can manifest in relationships. The conversation touches on the balance between needing support and fostering independence, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and personal growth.

Radical Thinking, The Null Hypothesis June 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kenny Baron, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Sherri Siegel

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of the ‘null hypothesis’ in relationships, suggesting that people often choose partners based on their ‘false selves’ rather than their true identities. He discusses how societal pressures and childhood experiences shape our adaptive selves, leading individuals to present curated versions of themselves to their partners. Through a series of engaging dialogues with guests, including Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Sherri Siegel, the show delves into the complexities of love, acceptance, and the challenges of revealing one’s true self in intimate relationships.

Exploring the Real Self and Love April 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complexities of the real self versus the outer self, questioning the authenticity of our identities. He discusses the concept of the loving self and how it relates to our feelings of satisfaction and connection with others. Through various examples, including relationships and personal experiences, Armand challenges listeners to reflect on their own perceptions of love and authenticity. The conversation emphasizes that love often reflects how we feel about ourselves in the presence of others, prompting a deeper exploration of what it means to be truly real.

Altered Personalities and the Real You March 30, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of altered personalities and how they affect our perception of self. He discusses the idea that many people carry around different versions of themselves, often shaped by experiences and societal expectations. Through engaging dialogue, he examines how these alter selves can emerge in various situations, such as during moments of fear or when facing life changes. Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own alter personalities and the impact they have on their lives, relationships, and overall well-being.

Alter Selves and Psychological Functioning March 1, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of alter selves and their impact on psychological functioning, particularly in relation to addiction and behavior disorders. He discusses how individuals often dissociate from their true selves in response to stress, trauma, or emotional challenges, creating alternate personalities that manage these experiences. Through anecdotes and insights from his extensive experience in psychotherapy, DeMille encourages listeners to recognize and befriend these alter personalities rather than criticize them. This approach may lead to better self-understanding and healing.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Grief and Healing January 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Nicole Alston

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of grief with guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Nicole Alston, who share their experiences and insights on coping with loss. They explore the five stages of grief, the impact of complicated grief, and the importance of processing emotions. The conversation highlights the need for support systems and the role of counseling in navigating grief, particularly for parents who have lost children. The episode emphasizes the significance of acknowledging and expressing feelings of anger and sadness as part of the healing journey.

Thursday Thoughts December 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of vainglory, distinguishing it from boastfulness. He explores how vainglorious individuals often seek admiration by subtly inserting their accomplishments into conversations about significant events, like 9-11. Armand reflects on the nature of vanity and humility, emphasizing the importance of genuine humility over self-promotion. He encourages listeners to recognize the signs of vainglory in themselves and others, advocating for understanding and compassion towards those who may feel inadequate and resort to boasting as a defense mechanism. The episode concludes with a reminder of the value of humility in personal interactions.