Keyword: self-acceptance

Loneliness and Connection July 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex feelings of loneliness and connection, discussing how modern technology, like the internet, can both alleviate and exacerbate feelings of isolation. The conversation delves into statistics about loneliness among older adults and personal anecdotes about forming connections through gaming and other means. Listeners share their experiences and thoughts on loneliness, revealing the emotional struggles that come with feeling isolated, even in the presence of others. The episode emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own feelings and the need for genuine connections.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Victimhood and Power June 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Billy Ann, Giullian Gioiello, Grace, Joe, Mark, Ori Yumini-Morrison, Paul

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of victimhood and its psychological implications. He explores how individuals often adopt a victim mentality to gain empathy and support from others, while also examining the dynamics of power in relationships. Through various anecdotes and caller interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing one’s own role in situations of perceived victimization and encourages listeners to shift their perspective from being victims to becoming empowered individuals. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, forgiveness, and the emotional strategies people use to navigate their lives.

Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind March 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella delve into the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on fear, hatred, and vengeance. They explore how these feelings often originate in childhood and can manifest in various ways throughout life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and exploring these emotions rather than denying them, as this can lead to a more positive mindset. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with hatred and to consider how these feelings impact their relationships and sense of self.

Exploring Feelings and Communication February 4, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella, Michael G. Haskins

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the spectrum of human emotions, focusing on five basic feelings: sad, mad, glad, bad, and scared. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these emotions and their impact on communication, particularly in relationships. The conversation includes insights from guests about how different environments and situations can influence emotional responses, such as laughter in uncomfortable situations. The episode also touches on the complexities of positive and negative feelings, exploring how they manifest in everyday life and interactions.

Emotions and Fear January 29, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexity of emotions, focusing on fear as a primary feeling that many struggle with. He discusses how anxiety can lead to a sense of danger and the desire for security, often resulting in avoidance behaviors. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing and processing these feelings rather than suppressing them. Through listener interactions, he highlights the commonality of these experiences and encourages individuals to confront their fears and seek understanding. The conversation delves into the interplay between personal history and emotional responses, aiming to empower listeners to lead a more positively minded life.

Betrayal January 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex issue of betrayal, focusing on self-betrayal and its roots in childhood. He discusses how early experiences with love and power shape our understanding of relationships and the choices we make as adults. Through conversations with guests, the episode delves into the emotional turmoil that arises from feeling betrayed by others and oneself. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of recognizing our authentic selves and the impact of societal expectations on our emotional well-being.

Harmonizing Self-Control and Relationships November 5, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, focusing on the themes of trust, self-control, and the impact of past experiences on current interactions. He engages with callers who share their struggles with misanthropy, distrust, and the challenge of forming meaningful connections. Through insightful discussions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and others, encouraging listeners to reflect on their past and how it shapes their present relationships. The conversation highlights the transformative power of empathy and the necessity of building trust in both personal and professional spheres.

Funny Thinking September 17, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘funny thinking’—irrational beliefs that lead to emotional disturbance and unhappiness. He discusses how our thoughts can create stress and affect our spirit, particularly in the context of physical illness and emotional challenges. Armand shares insights from his experiences as a psychotherapist, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance and the dangers of seeking external validation. He provides a list of common irrational thoughts and encourages listeners to identify their feelings to better understand their emotional states. This episode aims to help individuals recognize and challenge their funny thinking patterns for a more positive mindset.