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Love and Its Complexities March 26, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of love and its impact on human relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Giullian Gioiello, they delve into the challenges therapists face when addressing love in their practice. The conversation touches on the definitions of normalcy, the role of mirror neurons in relationships, and the often exaggerated emotions associated with love. Through engaging discussions and listener calls, the episode highlights the complexities of love, including its potential to block personal growth and the various ways individuals bond with one another.

Understanding Addiction and Excess July 16, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Jonathan Berent

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex relationship between addiction and excess, likening them to a romance with inanimate substances. He shares personal anecdotes about his experiences with smoking and discusses how addiction can stem from unmet emotional needs and disappointments in human relationships. The conversation delves into the nature of social anxiety and shyness, emphasizing the importance of understanding the underlying emotional issues that contribute to these conditions. DeMille also highlights the role of parents in shaping a child’s social behavior and the impact of societal pressures on individual self-esteem.

Psychology for Therapists: The Id and the Ego August 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone delve into the complexities of the human mind, focusing on Freud’s concepts of the id and ego. They explore how these elements influence our emotions, particularly in the context of love and relationships. Through engaging metaphors, they discuss the wild horse representing our desires and needs, and how individuals navigate their emotional landscapes. The conversation also touches on the challenges of falling in love and the impact of personal growth over time. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with love and the dynamics of their relationships.

Valentine’s Day Reflections February 14, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the essence of love as Valentine’s Day approaches. He reflects on the unique dynamics of romantic relationships, emphasizing the concept of ‘I love us’ over ‘I love you.’ Armand discusses the hormonal influences on love, the complexities of childhood experiences, and how they shape adult relationships. He highlights the importance of honesty and vulnerability in love, suggesting that true connections often emerge from overcoming deception. Ultimately, he encourages listeners to appreciate the beautiful ache of love, recognizing it as a continuous journey rather than a destination.

Motivation and Drives June 23, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lauren Sykes, Sherri Siegel

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guests discuss the complexities of human motivation and the various drives that influence our behavior. They explore intrinsic and extrinsic motivations, the role of hormones, and how our past experiences shape our desires. The conversation delves into the psychological aspects of motivation, including the impact of safety and the subconscious drives that can lead to both positive and negative behaviors. The hosts also touch on the societal influences on motivation and the importance of understanding these dynamics for personal growth.

Kissing and Its Impact on Relationships March 11, 2010

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating dynamics of kissing, discussing its hormonal effects and significance in romantic relationships. He delves into how kissing can influence sexual attraction through the exchange of pheromones and testosterone, as well as its role in emotional bonding via oxytocin and dopamine. The conversation touches on cultural differences in kissing practices and the psychological implications of intimacy. Listeners share personal experiences, highlighting the deep connections formed through kissing and the importance of maintaining this intimate act in relationships.

Filling In: The Brain’s Fascinating Process December 16, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Mental Health and Music

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the intriguing phenomenon of ‘filling in’ as it relates to human cognition and emotions. They discuss how our brains automatically fill in gaps in our experiences, from visual and auditory perceptions to dreams and memories. The conversation delves into the neurological underpinnings of this process, its implications for understanding relationships and emotions, and how it manifests in various aspects of life, including romance and personal growth. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and dreams, highlighting the importance of recognizing and addressing the gaps in our understanding of ourselves.

Ice Cream in the Cupboard June 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Pat Moffitt

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele speaks with Pat Moffitt, author of ‘Ice Cream in the Cupboard,’ about his personal journey with his wife Carmen, who was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease at the age of 53. Pat shares the challenges of caregiving, the emotional toll it took on him, and the gradual loss of connection with his wife. Through their story, he highlights the importance of awareness and understanding of early onset Alzheimer’s, as well as the need for support for caregivers. This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the complexities of love, loss, and the impact of Alzheimer’s on families.

Understanding Love and Neediness March 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the often painful nature of neediness in relationships. He discusses how men and women experience love differently, with men typically feeling a sense of need before securing a partner, while women often feel it afterward. DeMille delves into the idea that love can sometimes feel like an addiction, leading individuals to chase after unavailable partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and avoid the pitfalls of desperation and neediness.

Marital Arguments and Health October 2, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of marital arguments on health, particularly focusing on the differences between men and women. He explores the concept of self-silencing, where individuals suppress their feelings during conflicts, and how this can lead to serious health issues, especially for women. The discussion highlights the importance of expressing emotions and the potential dangers of unresolved anger. DeMille emphasizes that while arguments are a natural part of relationships, the way they are handled can significantly affect both emotional well-being and physical health. He encourages listeners to communicate openly and seek therapy if needed.