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Psychology for Therapists: Part Seven July 31, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Lisa Arnone

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Lisa Arnone continue their series on psychology tailored for therapists. They delve into the complexities of self-inquiry, emphasizing the importance of asking the right questions about one’s feelings and behaviors. Armand discusses how individuals often struggle with understanding their emotions and the dynamics of therapy. He highlights the significance of recognizing dependency, stages of growth, and the resistance to change that many face. The episode encourages listeners to explore deeper questions about themselves, moving beyond surface-level inquiries to uncover underlying motivations and feelings.

Rebellion September 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Ramey

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of rebellion, discussing its importance in personal growth and development. He reflects on his childhood experiences and the concept of conformity, sharing anecdotes about adolescents’ struggles against authority. Joined by guests Alex and Ramey, they delve into their own experiences with rebellion, the pressures of school and work, and the significance of standing up for oneself. The conversation highlights how rebellion can manifest in various forms and the vital role it plays in shaping identity and independence.

Happiness and Resistance December 1, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Sherri Siegel

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Sherri Siegel explore the complex nature of happiness and the psychological resistance that often hinders personal growth. They discuss the myriad of self-help resources available on happiness, the prevalence of depression, and the significant financial investments people make in search of joy. The conversation delves into the concept of the ‘engineer’ within us, which protects us from change and the unknown. Through dialogue and acceptance, the hosts encourage listeners to confront their resistance and embrace the journey towards a more fulfilling life.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

End of the Heat June 20, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the impact of heat on our lives and mental well-being. He shares insights on how heat can exacerbate anxiety and panic attacks, particularly during the summer months. The conversation touches on the struggles faced by soldiers in extreme temperatures and the importance of understanding the emotional and physical effects of heat. Armand also explores innovative solutions like cooling vests and emphasizes the need for empathy towards others’ experiences. The episode encourages listeners to confront their feelings and seek help when necessary.

Embracing Resistance for Growth December 22, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of resistance as a vital part of personal growth and change. He discusses how resistance can manifest in our lives, whether through emotional struggles, financial challenges, or interpersonal relationships. By acknowledging and embracing our resistance, we can better understand ourselves and facilitate meaningful change. The discussion includes insights from callers who share their experiences with resistance, highlighting the importance of recognizing who we are not in order to discover our true selves. Armand encourages listeners to celebrate their resistance as a natural part of the growth process.

Change and Resistance Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Personal Growth and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of change and the natural resistance people often feel towards it. He discusses how societal expectations can pressure individuals to alter their emotions, attitudes, and even relationships. Through anecdotes and psychological concepts, Armand delves into the comfort zones we create and how they can hinder personal growth. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own desires for change and the role of the ‘engineer’ within us that influences our decisions. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences with change and the resistance they encounter.