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Harmonizing Self-Control and Relationships November 5, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of human relationships, focusing on the themes of trust, self-control, and the impact of past experiences on current interactions. He engages with callers who share their struggles with misanthropy, distrust, and the challenge of forming meaningful connections. Through insightful discussions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and others, encouraging listeners to reflect on their past and how it shapes their present relationships. The conversation highlights the transformative power of empathy and the necessity of building trust in both personal and professional spheres.

Generosity and Stinginess August 27, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of generosity and stinginess, delving into how these traits reflect our personalities and affect our relationships. He discusses the motivations behind giving and receiving, the emotional consequences of being a compulsive giver, and the psychological implications of stinginess. Through various examples and anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to reflect on their own giving patterns and consider the deeper meanings behind their actions. The episode aims to foster a better understanding of oneself and others, ultimately promoting healthier interactions and relationships.

Nagging and the Pressure to Change May 1, 2013

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional pressure partners often exert on each other to change, commonly referred to as nagging. He explores the dynamics of relationships where one partner attempts to change the other, leading to resentment and conflict. Armand emphasizes the importance of total acceptance in love, highlighting that true love does not come with the desire to change the other person. The conversation delves into the negative effects of nagging, the roots of resentment, and the need for self-reflection in relationships. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own experiences with nagging and the impact it has on their relationships.

Dutiful Personalities and the Enneagram April 3, 2013

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Don Riso, Russ Hudson

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the Enneagram types associated with dutiful personalities, focusing on the perfectionist (type one), the helper (type two), and the loyalist (type six). The conversation explores the characteristics, motivations, and challenges faced by these personality types. The hosts, Don Riso and Russ Hudson, share insights into how these types navigate their sense of duty, obligation, and the inner conflicts that arise from their perfectionistic tendencies, need for approval, and anxiety about security. They also highlight the potential for growth and the positive contributions these types can make to society.

Caregiving and Its Challenges April 17, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with Dr. Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ They explore the emotional toll on caregivers, the dynamics of care in relationships, and the importance of communication. Dr. Denholm shares insights from her personal experiences and offers practical tools for caregivers to manage their feelings of anger, resentment, and guilt. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding between caregivers and those they care for, highlighting the shared journey of love and support during challenging times.

Covert Brutality and Passive-Aggressive Behavior March 2, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of covert brutality, particularly focusing on passive-aggressive behavior. He explains how this subtle form of abuse can manifest in relationships, often disguised as normal or caring actions. Armand highlights the characteristics of passive-aggressive individuals, including procrastination, forgetfulness, and ambiguity, and how these behaviors can lead to confusion and frustration in interpersonal dynamics. He encourages listeners to recognize these patterns and consider the emotional impact they have on both the passive-aggressive person and those around them.

Passive Aggressive Behavior July 2, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of passive aggressive behavior, a form of resistance often misunderstood. He defines passive aggression as a defense mechanism characterized by resentment, procrastination, and indirect hostility. Armand discusses its signs, such as chronic lateness and avoidance of responsibility, and contrasts it with other forms of aggression. He emphasizes the importance of understanding the underlying fears that drive passive aggressive behavior and encourages listeners to seek assertiveness instead. Through engaging examples and listener interactions, the episode sheds light on how to navigate relationships affected by passive aggression.

Hatred: An Exploration January 22, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele delves into the complex emotion of hatred, exploring its roots and implications in our lives. He discusses how hatred differs from anger, emphasizing its deep-seated nature and the impact it has on relationships and self-perception. Through personal anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand encourages a candid examination of this often-taboo emotion, suggesting that understanding hatred can lead to personal growth and emotional healing. The episode also touches on the interplay between love and hatred, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and addressing these feelings.

Caregiving and Caregetting Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Diana Denholm, John Valerio, Linda Vanella, Lisa Arnone

Category: Generational and Age Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of caregiving with a panel of guests, including Diana Denholm, author of ‘The Caregiving Wife’s Handbook.’ The conversation explores the emotional challenges faced by caregivers, the dynamics of family involvement, and the importance of communication in managing relationships during times of illness. The guests share personal experiences and insights on how to navigate the difficult decisions surrounding caregiving, while emphasizing the need for self-care and the potential for resentment in these roles. The episode aims to provide listeners with practical tools and understanding to foster healthier caregiving relationships.

Consistency in Parenting and Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of consistency in parenting and personal relationships. He discusses a study by Israeli researchers that reveals how consistent parenting can lead to effective behavior in children, but may also foster resentment. Through listener calls, Armand delves into personal experiences, examining how past relationships with parents can influence adult romantic choices. The conversation highlights the challenges of navigating emotional connections, the impact of inconsistency, and the importance of understanding one’s own needs in relationships.