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Domestic Violence Awareness April 23, 2013

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the critical issue of domestic violence with Dr. Noel Nelson, author of ‘Dangerous Relationships.’ They explore the alarming statistics surrounding domestic violence, including its prevalence and the various warning signs that can indicate a potentially abusive relationship. Dr. Nelson outlines seven key signs, such as controlling behavior, possessiveness, and insensitivity, that individuals should be aware of to protect themselves. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking proactive steps to ensure personal safety and well-being.

Fear of Close Relationships October 4, 2011

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the reasons behind people’s fear of forming close relationships. He discusses how past experiences and childhood conditioning can lead to a reluctance to love and connect with others. Armand emphasizes the importance of recognizing these fears and understanding that love should not be equated with pain or control. He encourages listeners to confront their fears and to seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships. The episode also touches on the dynamics of control in relationships and the role of victimhood in emotional connections.

Navigating Relationships and Mental Health June 3, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of mental health and addiction. He explores the impact of parental relationships on children’s emotional development, the effects of frequent relocations on youth, and the challenges posed by depression within families. DeMille emphasizes the importance of communication and connection in relationships, especially when dealing with issues like addiction and mental health. He also highlights the need for parents to model healthy relationships for their children. The episode includes listener calls that delve into personal experiences and insights on these topics.

Understanding Systems Theory March 23, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of systems theory, emphasizing the importance of viewing individuals within the context of their family systems. He discusses how behaviors, such as a child’s depression or acting out, often reflect the dynamics of the entire family rather than just the individual. Through various examples, including the impact of parental depression on children and the roles individuals play within family systems, Armand illustrates how understanding these relationships can lead to healing. He also touches on the implications of medication like Ritalin and the need for a holistic approach to treatment.

Special Thursday Thoughts Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Peter Hogan

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the dynamics of relationships through the lens of competitive, cooperative, and dominant-submissive interactions. He reflects on his experiences with Dr. Peter Hogan, a scientist who studied how electronic games can reveal relationship patterns. Armand discusses how these relationship types impact satisfaction and longevity, ultimately revealing that dominant-submissive dynamics often lead to the most enduring partnerships. He invites listeners to reflect on their own relationship preferences and dynamics, encouraging engagement through anonymous feedback.

Why Do Men Marry Their Mothers? Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Linda Vanella, Ori Amini Morrison

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complex relationships between men and their mothers, and women and their fathers. Joined by trauma specialists Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella and Ori Amini Morrison, the conversation explores how early attachments and trauma can influence adult relationships. They delve into the concept of trauma-induced intimacy disorder and how it affects the ability to form significant connections in adulthood. The episode also touches on cultural differences in family dynamics and the psychological implications of these relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and the patterns that emerge in their romantic lives.