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Thermal Wars and Human Relationships February 28, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti delve into the fascinating topic of thermal regulation and its impact on human relationships. They explore how individuals experience temperature differently based on factors such as gender, body composition, and hormonal changes. The discussion highlights the importance of accommodation in relationships, particularly during challenging times like menopause. Through anecdotes and scientific insights, they emphasize the need for understanding and adapting to each other’s unique sensitivities, whether it be regarding temperature, noise levels, or emotional pain. This episode serves as a reminder of the complexities of human interaction and the essential role of empathy and compromise in maintaining healthy relationships.

Monogamy and Its Complexities January 31, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Mariotti

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Mariotti delve into the intricacies of monogamy, exploring its biological, social, and emotional dimensions. They discuss the definitions of genetic, sexual, and social monogamy, and how these concepts manifest in both human and animal behaviors. The conversation highlights the challenges of maintaining monogamous relationships in modern society, the impact of societal norms, and the biological imperatives that influence sexual behavior. They also touch on alternative relationship structures like polyamory, questioning the effectiveness and sustainability of monogamous commitments.

Understanding Men January 17, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Neil Chetnik, Terry Jones

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of masculinity and the challenges men face in modern society. He discusses the misconceptions surrounding men’s emotions, the importance of elder figures, and the detrimental effects of societal expectations on men’s mental health. Through conversations with guests like Neil Chetnik, the discussion delves into the significance of father-son relationships and the need for emotional connection among men. The episode emphasizes the necessity of addressing men’s struggles with burnout, depression, and the quest for identity in a world that often misunderstands them.

Intermittent Explosive Disorder August 23, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Kent Robinshaw

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) with doctors Kent Robinshaw and Christine Ulrich. They explore the prevalence of IED, its symptoms, and the underlying causes, including biological and psychological factors. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing anger triggers and the role of therapy in managing explosive behaviors. The hosts also discuss the societal implications of IED and the need for effective treatment options. Listeners are encouraged to seek help if they or someone they know struggles with anger management issues.

Dating Dynamics May 4, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nuances of dating, focusing on the importance of communication in friendships and relationships. He explores how different genders approach conversation, highlighting that women often enjoy deeper discussions while men may prefer brief exchanges. The episode delves into the psychological aspects of communication, including how conversation can affect serotonin levels and emotional well-being. Armand also takes calls from listeners, addressing their personal experiences with dating and communication, providing insights into how to navigate these dynamics effectively.

Sexuality and Relationships with Dr. Judy Kuriansky January 5, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Judy Kuriansky, Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages in a lively discussion with Dr. Judy Kuriansky, a seasoned sex therapist and author. They explore various aspects of sexuality, intimacy, and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of communication, acceptance, and emotional expression. Dr. Kuriansky shares insights from her extensive experience, including techniques for enhancing intimacy and addressing sexual apathy. The conversation also touches on the significance of understanding one’s own needs and the balance between togetherness and independence in relationships.

Arguments and Nonviolent Communication Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Tom Bond

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of communication, particularly in the context of arguments and conflicts. He shares insights from his friend Richard on evaluating the motivations behind conversations and the importance of recognizing when discussions are unproductive. Joined by Tom Bond, a representative of nonviolent communication, they explore how to navigate difficult conversations, the significance of empathy, and the need to focus on feelings and needs rather than judgments. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of understanding and connection in communication.

Seven Steps for Effective Communication in Relationships Undated

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of human relationships and offers seven essential steps to enhance communication with your partner. He explores factors influencing romantic bonds, the importance of emotional expression, and the role of humor in relationships. Listeners learn about common pitfalls, such as blame and emotional blackmail, and how to navigate them effectively. DeMille emphasizes the significance of celebrating solutions and maintaining a loving dialogue, providing practical tools for couples to improve their interactions and strengthen their connections.

Love Delusion and Mating Intelligence Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Christine Ulrich, Iris Reiner

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex dynamics of romantic relationships, introducing the concept of ‘mating intelligence.’ He discusses how unconscious biases affect our perceptions of attraction and love, revealing that both men and women often misinterpret signals of interest. The episode highlights common misconceptions about dating behaviors, including how intelligence can skew perceptions of romantic interest. DeMille also examines the role of attachment styles in relationships, emphasizing how early experiences shape adult romantic behaviors. The discussion is enriched by insights from guest psychologist Iris Reiner, who delves into attachment theory and its implications for forming lasting partnerships.

Relationships with Dr. Terry Orbach Undated

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Terry Orbach

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Terry Orbach, a marriage and family therapist, about her research on relationships and her book, ‘Five Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great.’ They discuss common myths about marriage, the importance of communication, and the factors that contribute to lasting relationships. Dr. Orbach shares insights from her long-term study of couples, emphasizing the significance of understanding each other’s values, managing conflict, and maintaining positivity in relationships. The conversation highlights practical steps couples can take to enhance their connection and happiness.