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When Love Dies December 22, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Stephanie D'Ambra

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and relationships, particularly what happens when love begins to fade over time. He discusses the natural progression of relationships, the impact of unmet needs, and the emotional turmoil that arises when partners feel disconnected. Through engaging anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of communication, vulnerability, and mutual support in maintaining a healthy relationship. He also introduces various exercises aimed at rekindling intimacy and connection between partners, encouraging listeners to confront their instincts and work towards a deeper understanding of their relationships.

Communication Strategies for Fulfilling Relationships October 15, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: David B. Wolf

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of effective communication in relationships, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and accountability. He explores the concept of transformative communication, which involves understanding oneself before engaging with others. The conversation highlights common roadblocks to effective communication, such as emotional charge and defensiveness, and offers strategies for creating a safe space for dialogue. The episode also touches on the significance of recognizing emotions and using ‘I’ statements to foster understanding. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their communication styles and consider how they can improve their interactions with loved ones.

Understanding Attachment Styles March 26, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Iris Reiner

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele welcomes Dr. Iris Reiner, a psychologist and researcher from Germany, to discuss the complexities of love and attachment styles. They explore the three major attachment styles: secure, dismissing, and preoccupied, and how these styles affect relationships. Dr. Reiner shares insights from her research on how genetics and parenting influence attachment behaviors. The conversation delves into the implications of these styles on emotional health and relationship dynamics, emphasizing the importance of understanding oneself and others in fostering secure connections.

Interview with Dr. Irvin Yalom March 5, 2008

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Irvin Yalom

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychiatrist and author Dr. Irvin Yalom about the intricacies of psychotherapy, particularly focusing on the concepts of transference and countertransference in therapeutic relationships. They discuss the impact of death anxiety on patients and how facing mortality can lead to a more authentic life. Dr. Yalom shares insights from his books, including ‘Love’s Executioner’ and ‘When Nietzsche Wept,’ emphasizing the importance of empathy and genuine connection in therapy. The conversation also touches on the portrayal of therapy in media and the challenges therapists face in maintaining authenticity.

Understanding Love and Neediness March 4, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of love and the often painful nature of neediness in relationships. He discusses how men and women experience love differently, with men typically feeling a sense of need before securing a partner, while women often feel it afterward. DeMille delves into the idea that love can sometimes feel like an addiction, leading individuals to chase after unavailable partners. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and avoid the pitfalls of desperation and neediness.

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence December 6, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, exploring the complexities of desire, intimacy, and infidelity across different cultures. They discuss how societal norms shape sexual relationships, the impact of parenthood on eroticism, and the importance of maintaining desire in long-term partnerships. Perel emphasizes that desire is often rooted in absence and longing, and that couples must navigate the balance between emotional connection and sexual attraction. The conversation delves into the nuances of masculinity and femininity, revealing how modern relationships can thrive through understanding and communication.

Sexuality and Desire November 21, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel about the complexities of sexuality and desire in relationships. They discuss the interplay between intimacy and eroticism, the impact of societal norms on sexual fulfillment, and the importance of maintaining desire through novelty and playfulness. Perel emphasizes that desire often thrives on uncertainty and that couples should actively negotiate their boundaries and expectations regarding monogamy. The conversation also touches on the significance of privacy in sexual relationships and the need for open communication about fantasies and desires.

Different Perspectives on Sanity and Self-Awareness August 16, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Cindy Violetta, Dr. Scott Baum, Kent Robertshaw

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with three guests—Kent Robertshaw, Dr. Scott Baum, and Cindy Violetta—to explore the complexities of sanity, self-awareness, and emotional health. They discuss the nuances of mental health diagnostics, the importance of introspection, and the role of vulnerability in understanding one’s emotions. The conversation delves into how societal norms shape perceptions of sanity and the significance of love and connection in personal growth. Through their diverse perspectives, the guests highlight the challenges individuals face in recognizing and addressing their emotional states.

Affairs, Relationships, and Healing May 29, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of infidelity in relationships, addressing the emotional turmoil that arises when one partner discovers the other has cheated. He explores the statistics surrounding affairs, the psychological impact on both partners, and the societal factors that contribute to infidelity. DeMille emphasizes the importance of understanding the dynamics of jealousy, betrayal, and the potential for healing after such a traumatic experience. He encourages listeners to seek support and to focus on personal growth, rather than demanding details or placing blame. The episode serves as a guide for navigating the difficult terrain of relationships affected by infidelity.

Latest Research on Fertility and Aging March 15, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Sleep and Well-being

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses recent studies highlighting the impact of aging on male fertility, challenging the notion that men have no biological clock. He emphasizes the risks associated with fathering children at an older age, including potential abnormalities. The conversation also touches on the effects of aging on eyesight and the importance of adequate lighting. Additionally, Armand shares intriguing research on women’s fertility and attractiveness, as well as concerns regarding the side effects of sleeping pills like Ambien. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own skills and expertise.