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Powerlessness March 21, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella explore the concept of powerlessness and its impact on mental health. They discuss how feelings of powerlessness can lead to depression, particularly when combined with self-directed anger. The hosts delve into various aspects of power, including addiction, love, and societal expectations, while emphasizing the importance of recognizing and accepting one’s limitations. Through listener calls, they highlight personal experiences and the struggle to regain control in the face of uncontrollable circumstances. The conversation encourages self-reflection and the pursuit of support from others.

Reactions to Catastrophe March 16, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amhara, Anthony, Daphne Rose Kingma, Dr. Ronald Fieve, Linda Vanella, Monroe, Pat Moffitt, Vincent

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, host Armand DiMele discusses the varied human reactions to catastrophic events, particularly focusing on the recent disasters in Japan. He explores cultural differences in responses, emphasizing the Japanese values of security and harmony. Through engaging conversations with callers, the show delves into personal experiences of fear, helplessness, and the quest for understanding in the face of tragedy. DeMille encourages listeners to reflect on their own reactions and the importance of compassion in times of crisis.

Power and Powerlessness September 1, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concepts of power and powerlessness, discussing how they manifest in our lives and relationships. He reflects on the nature of power, including the illusion of control we often seek and the feelings of helplessness that can arise when faced with uncontrollable circumstances. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, Armand delves into the complexities of power dynamics in relationships, the struggle for control, and the impact of powerlessness on mental health. He encourages listeners to consider their own experiences with power and to recognize the importance of accepting limitations.

Sending Troops to Afghanistan December 1, 2009

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the emotional impact of President Obama’s decision to send additional troops to Afghanistan. He invites listeners to share their feelings about the ongoing conflict and the toll it takes on both soldiers and civilians. The conversation explores themes of disappointment, powerlessness, and the need for honest dialogue about the realities of war. Through various callers, the program highlights personal experiences and reflections on the complexities of military involvement and the longing for peace.

Truth Telling and Its Complexities April 28, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate nature of truth-telling and the human tendency to deceive. He discusses how our self-esteem and feelings of powerlessness can lead to dishonesty, and how societal norms often dictate our relationship with truth. Through anecdotes and listener interactions, he delves into the consequences of seeking honesty in relationships and the challenges faced when confronting uncomfortable truths. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding our motivations for truth and deception, and how these dynamics play out in personal relationships.

Powerlessness and Helplessness November 8, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Kent Robertshaw

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of powerlessness and helplessness, particularly in the context of political and personal struggles. Joined by Kent Robertshaw, they explore how feelings of powerlessness can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety and social phobia. The conversation delves into the psychological implications of feeling out of control and the importance of recognizing one’s rights and entitlements. They emphasize that while powerlessness is a common human experience, acknowledging it can lead to personal growth and healing.

Shame and Addiction August 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Roberta Maria Atin

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele and guest Roberta Maria Ati explore the complex emotions surrounding shame, particularly in the context of societal tragedies like Hurricane Katrina. They differentiate between legitimate and toxic shame, discussing how the latter can lead to suffering and addiction. The conversation delves into the psychological effects of witnessing disaster and the feelings of powerlessness that arise from inaction. They also critique the inadequate responses from authorities in the aftermath of such events and emphasize the importance of addressing emotional pain rather than numbing it. The episode highlights the need for deeper understanding and compassion in the face of collective trauma.

Exploring Authority and Relationships August 2, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Shreya Mundal

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with Shreya Mundal, a mitigation specialist at the Legal Aid Society, to discuss the complexities of authority figures and personal relationships. They explore how early experiences with parents can shape interactions with authority, the feelings of powerlessness that often arise, and the importance of self-awareness in breaking negative patterns. Shreya shares insights from her work with clients in the criminal justice system, emphasizing the need for introspection and understanding one’s life history to foster healthier relationships with authority figures. The conversation also touches on activism, employment dynamics, and the significance of addressing underlying emotional issues.

When Is It Time to Leave? July 6, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex question of when it’s time to leave various aspects of life, including relationships, jobs, and even friendships. He discusses the emotions tied to leaving, such as anger and dissatisfaction, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing these feelings. Through various examples, he encourages listeners to evaluate their situations and consider whether staying or leaving is the best choice. The episode also touches on the significance of communication and understanding in relationships, urging individuals to express their feelings rather than act on impulse.

Power Dynamics November 8, 2005

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the multifaceted nature of power, discussing its various forms, including situational, directional, and fear-based power. He delves into the psychological implications of power struggles, particularly within familial and societal contexts. The conversation highlights how power dynamics can manifest in relationships, especially in childhood experiences, and the long-term effects they can have on individuals. Armand also addresses the darker aspects of power, including sadistic tendencies and the impact of powerlessness on behavior. Through listener calls, he emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.