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Shared Pain and Connection January 14, 2015

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Andrea Katz, Ben Starr, Diane, Giullian Gioiello, Oh Sui, Seth

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of shared pain and its impact on relationships and personal growth. Through discussions with guests, the show delves into how emotional pain can become addictive and how shared experiences of pain can foster deeper connections among individuals. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, cultural differences in expressing grief, and the dynamics of relationships influenced by past traumas. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with pain and connection, and how these elements shape their lives.

Victimhood and Power June 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Billy Ann, Giullian Gioiello, Grace, Joe, Mark, Ori Yumini-Morrison, Paul

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of victimhood and its psychological implications. He explores how individuals often adopt a victim mentality to gain empathy and support from others, while also examining the dynamics of power in relationships. Through various anecdotes and caller interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing one’s own role in situations of perceived victimization and encourages listeners to shift their perspective from being victims to becoming empowered individuals. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, forgiveness, and the emotional strategies people use to navigate their lives.

Men and Their Relationships June 12, 2013

Category: Masculinity and Emotional Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of men’s relationships with themselves, their mothers, and romantic partners. He delves into the societal expectations placed on men, the impact of testosterone on behavior, and the struggles men face in navigating intimacy and vulnerability. The discussion highlights the internal conflicts that arise from traditional masculinity, including the fear of commitment and emotional expression. DeMille encourages listeners to understand these dynamics to foster healthier relationships and personal growth.

Domestic Violence Awareness April 23, 2013

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the critical issue of domestic violence with Dr. Noel Nelson, author of ‘Dangerous Relationships.’ They explore the alarming statistics surrounding domestic violence, including its prevalence and the various warning signs that can indicate a potentially abusive relationship. Dr. Nelson outlines seven key signs, such as controlling behavior, possessiveness, and insensitivity, that individuals should be aware of to protect themselves. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking proactive steps to ensure personal safety and well-being.

Living the High Road April 4, 2012

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Human Behavior Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of ‘living the high road’ as inspired by his friend Ricky Rohr. He discusses the complexities of human relationships, particularly how neuroses can sometimes serve as strengths. Armand delves into various personality disorders and their impact on relationships, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one’s own role in these dynamics. He encourages listeners to reflect on their motivations and the power they derive from their interactions, ultimately advocating for a more peaceful and self-aware approach to life and relationships.

Celebrating Different Perspectives April 3, 2012

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Joanna, John Valerio, Lisa Arnone

Category: Gratitude and Mindfulness

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of perceiving life without judgment, emphasizing that not everything needs to be viewed positively. He discusses the importance of recognizing the strength in our perceived weaknesses, such as depression and paranoia, and how these feelings can serve a purpose in our lives. Through various examples, including a little girl’s drawing and personal anecdotes, Armand encourages listeners to embrace their complexities and celebrate their unique perspectives. The episode also features a birthday celebration for Joanna and insights into the power dynamics in relationships.

Rebellion September 21, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Alex, Lauren Sykes, Linda Vanella, Ramey

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the theme of rebellion, discussing its importance in personal growth and development. He reflects on his childhood experiences and the concept of conformity, sharing anecdotes about adolescents’ struggles against authority. Joined by guests Alex and Ramey, they delve into their own experiences with rebellion, the pressures of school and work, and the significance of standing up for oneself. The conversation highlights how rebellion can manifest in various forms and the vital role it plays in shaping identity and independence.

Submissiveness and Power Dynamics June 7, 2011

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Linda Vanella, Lorna Sykes

Category: Psychological Challenges and Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concepts of submissiveness and learned helplessness, exploring how these traits manifest in personal relationships and workplace dynamics. He contrasts the roles of ‘servers’ and ‘peacemakers,’ highlighting the psychological impacts of learned helplessness on health and social interactions. The conversation delves into the complexities of power dynamics, both in nature and human relationships, and emphasizes the importance of recognizing one’s own power to effect change. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their experiences with submissiveness and how it shapes their lives.

Surviving Relationships and Exit Strategies April 29, 2010

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the often overlooked ‘flight’ reaction in relationships, contrasting it with the more commonly discussed ‘fight or flight’ response. He delves into how individuals prepare exit strategies in their relationships, whether consciously or subconsciously, and discusses the psychological mechanisms behind these behaviors. Armand categorizes people into three types based on their relationship dynamics: those who are comfortable being alone, those who have Ben Starr damaged and seek attachment, and those who choose partners with known flaws. He encourages listeners to reflect on their own strategies for coping with relationship challenges and the importance of maintaining emotional connections.

Undervalued Self April 8, 2010

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Elaine Aron

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele speaks with Dr. Elaine Aron, author of ‘The Undervalued Self.’ They explore the concept of self-worth and how individuals often undervalue themselves due to social hierarchies and comparisons. Dr. Aron discusses the importance of recognizing the difference between ranking and linking in relationships, emphasizing that true self-esteem comes from loving connections rather than societal standings. The conversation delves into the psychological impacts of feeling inadequate and the role of attachment in shaping our self-perception. Listeners are encouraged to foster linking relationships to combat feelings of undervaluation.