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Possessiveness and Belonging September 16, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Personal Growth and Identity

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex concept of possessiveness and its implications on relationships and personal identity. Joined by associate producers Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, and Lisa Arnone, they delve into how language shapes our perception of ownership in relationships and the inherent desire to belong. The discussion touches on cultural perspectives, personal anecdotes, and the psychological aspects of possessiveness, including its negative connotations and the yearning for connection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with possessiveness and belonging.

Obsessiveness and Love September 10, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Ben Starr, Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional and Mental Health

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the nature of obsessiveness and its connection to love and relationships. Joined by guests Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella, Ben Starr, and Giullian Gioiello, the conversation explores the psychological mechanisms behind obsessive thoughts and behaviors, including the role of the amygdala in processing fear and anxiety. The group shares insights on how emotional evanescence affects our perceptions of past traumas and relationships, and offers practical advice on coping with obsessive feelings, such as engaging in acts of kindness, physical activity, and seeking new experiences to break the cycle of negative thoughts.

Getting to Know You July 9, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of intimacy and the challenge of truly knowing oneself and others. He discusses the importance of vulnerability in relationships and the fear of rejection that often prevents individuals from being fully open. Through engaging dialogue with his guest Giullian Gioiello and callers, Armand emphasizes the need for genuine connections and the role of therapy in understanding oneself. The conversation touches on the concept of ‘grokking’—a deep understanding of another person—and how it relates to love and acceptance in relationships.

Victimhood and Power June 25, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Billy Ann, Giullian Gioiello, Grace, Joe, Mark, Ori Yumini-Morrison, Paul

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the concept of victimhood and its psychological implications. He explores how individuals often adopt a victim mentality to gain empathy and support from others, while also examining the dynamics of power in relationships. Through various anecdotes and caller interactions, Armand highlights the importance of recognizing one’s own role in situations of perceived victimization and encourages listeners to shift their perspective from being victims to becoming empowered individuals. The conversation delves into the complexities of relationships, forgiveness, and the emotional strategies people use to navigate their lives.

Decision-Making Factors June 24, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Lisa Arnone

Category: Philosophy and Personal Growth

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the various cognitive and emotional factors that influence decision-making. Joined by guests Lisa Arnone and Giullian Gioiello, they explore how emotions like sadness, fear, and anger can skew our choices, as well as cognitive biases such as anchoring and the bandwagon effect. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and reflection in making better decisions, while also inviting listeners to share their experiences and insights on the topic.

Understanding Violence June 18, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Amy, Dr. Carol Dweck, Giullian Gioiello, Jaime, John Pelletieri, Rinaldo, Terry Jones

Category: Social Dynamics and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complex nature of violence, discussing its definitions, causes, and consequences. He highlights the alarming statistics surrounding violence, including the prevalence of suicide and child maltreatment. Through engaging conversations with callers, Armand delves into personal experiences with violence, the struggle for understanding, and the importance of communication in relationships. The episode emphasizes the need for awareness and understanding of violence in various forms, including self-directed, collective, and interpersonal violence, and encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and the impact of violence in their lives.

Exploring Feelings and Therapy June 11, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Psychology and Cultural Insights

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the importance of feelings in therapy and the role of therapists in helping clients access their emotions. He shares a poignant story about a woman mourning her mother’s death and reflects on the challenges of managing feelings in therapeutic settings. The conversation also touches on the mismanagement of Pacifica Radio and WBAI, emphasizing the need for support to keep valuable programming alive. Throughout the episode, DeMille encourages listeners to confront their feelings and consider the deeper emotional connections that shape their experiences.

Relationships and Love May 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Albert Pesso, Audrey Clark, Barbara Katz Nelson, Giullian Gioiello, John Coltrane, Kevin O'Donoghue, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of love and relationships, exploring the emotional and psychological aspects that often lead to confusion and pain. He delves into the differences in how men and women experience love, the impact of neediness, and the importance of understanding one’s own emotional needs. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining healthy relationships and the common pitfalls that can arise from desperation and unrealistic expectations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider how they can navigate the intricacies of love more effectively.

Leave a Positive Life April 23, 2014

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional and Social Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the concept of leading a positive life and the psychological implications of our behaviors under pressure. He discusses the impact of narcissism and emotional abuse, particularly in familial relationships, and how these dynamics shape our identities. Through listener calls, Armand addresses personal struggles with parental relationships, emotional turmoil, and the quest for self-validation. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s internal self and the consequences of unresolved emotional baggage. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their experiences and seek healthier connections.

Managing Your Temper April 22, 2014

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Giullian Gioiello, Linda Vanella

Category: Emotional Intelligence and Communication

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of temper and anger management with guests Giullian Gioiello and Linda Vanella Vanella Vanella. They explore the origins of temper, its impact on personal relationships, and the importance of expressing emotions in a healthy way. The conversation touches on childhood experiences, the cultural aspects of anger, and strategies for coping with explosive emotions. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences with temper and consider how to manage it constructively. The episode also includes listener call-ins sharing personal stories and insights.