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Navigating Relationships and Mental Health June 3, 2009

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Family and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele discusses the complexities of relationships, particularly in the context of mental health and addiction. He explores the impact of parental relationships on children’s emotional development, the effects of frequent relocations on youth, and the challenges posed by depression within families. DeMille emphasizes the importance of communication and connection in relationships, especially when dealing with issues like addiction and mental health. He also highlights the need for parents to model healthy relationships for their children. The episode includes listener calls that delve into personal experiences and insights on these topics.

Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life April 8, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dacher Keltner

Category: Personal Growth and Awareness

In this episode, host Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Dacher Keltner, author of ‘Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life.’ They explore the concept of a meaningful life through the lens of Eastern philosophy and positive emotions. Dr. Keltner discusses the importance of emotions like compassion, gratitude, and reverence in fostering a sense of community and connection. The conversation delves into how our interactions, including laughter and touch, can bring out the best in others, and how understanding these dynamics can lead to healthier relationships in both personal and professional contexts.

Menopause and Relationships March 19, 2009

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Henry Hess

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with Dr. Henry Hess to explore the complexities of menopause and its impact on relationships. They discuss the biological changes women experience during menopause, including hormonal shifts that affect mood, sleep, and sexual desire. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding these changes for both partners, emphasizing communication and support. Dr. Hess shares insights on managing menopause symptoms through natural therapies, medical treatments, and lifestyle changes, while also addressing the often-overlooked emotional aspects of this life stage. The episode aims to foster awareness and compassion between partners navigating the challenges of menopause.

Eight Phases of Love and Loving Relationships March 1, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores his philosophy on love, detailing the eight significant phases of romantic relationships. He discusses the initial honeymoon phase, where passion and chemistry dominate, followed by the reality testing phase, where partners begin to see each other more clearly. As relationships evolve, they face challenges such as the ‘seven-year itch’ and the need for security and acceptance. Dimele emphasizes the importance of communication and understanding in navigating these phases, ultimately leading to a deep, lasting connection. He invites listeners to reflect on their own experiences with love and relationships.

Kissing: The Science Behind the Connection February 6, 2008

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the fascinating science of kissing, or osculation, and its profound implications on human relationships. He discusses how kissing serves as a complex exchange of information, revealing genetic compatibility and emotional connections. Drawing on research from evolutionary psychology, DeMille highlights the biological and chemical responses triggered by kissing, including the release of oxytocin, the bonding hormone. He also delves into cultural perceptions of kissing and its significance across different societies. This enlightening conversation encourages listeners to appreciate the deeper meanings behind this seemingly simple act.

Understanding Hormones and Relationships September 4, 2007

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the complexities of hormones like prolactin and dopamine and their effects on human behavior, particularly in relationships and sexual dynamics. He discusses the implications of trust issues stemming from past experiences and how they can impact current relationships. Through various examples and listener interactions, Armand emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own emotions and the biochemical influences that shape our reactions. He encourages listeners to seek knowledge and remain curious about the science behind their feelings and behaviors.

Mating in Captivity February 8, 2007

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Esther Perel

Category: Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele engages with renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel to explore the complexities of intimacy, desire, and passion in modern relationships. They discuss the paradox of wanting closeness while also craving distance, the role of fantasy and teasing in enhancing desire, and the impact of societal expectations on sexual dynamics. Perel emphasizes the importance of negotiation in monogamy and the need for couples to maintain their individual erotic identities. The conversation delves into the psychological and biological factors influencing sexual attraction and the significance of privacy in relationships.

Communication Beyond Words June 29, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Emotional Communication Dynamics

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the various forms of non-verbal communication, emphasizing the importance of touch and somatic expression. He discusses how body language, personal space, and gestures convey emotions and intentions without the need for words. The episode highlights the significance of touch in human relationships and its impact on emotional well-being, particularly in children and the elderly. Armand also addresses the complexities of touch in different cultural contexts and the confusion surrounding it in modern society. Listeners are encouraged to be mindful of their own communication styles and the messages they send through non-verbal cues.

Touch and Its Importance June 28, 2006

Host: Armand DiMeleGuests: Dr. Neil Shatka, Jean Liedloff, Roberta Maria Atti

Category: Human and Animal Behavior

In this episode, Armand DiMele and Roberta Maria Atti explore the critical role of touch in human development and communication. They discuss the historical context of touch, its significance in various cultures, and the psychological implications of touch deprivation. The hosts highlight research indicating that touch is essential for emotional and physical health, particularly in infants. They also address societal taboos surrounding touch, especially between genders, and the consequences of these prohibitions. The conversation delves into how touch can heal, comfort, and connect individuals, emphasizing its importance in fostering relationships and well-being.

Science of Love January 19, 2006

Host: Armand DiMele

Category: Love, Relationships, and Psychology

In this episode, Armand DiMele explores the intricate science behind love and relationships. He discusses how various factors, including chemistry, mental states, and environmental influences, affect our responses to potential partners. The conversation delves into the biological imperatives of attraction, the significance of first encounters, and the evolution of romantic feelings over time. Armand emphasizes the importance of maintaining excitement in relationships to keep the passion alive, particularly as dopamine levels change after the initial stages of love. The episode offers insights into the dynamics of love, bonding, and the impact of external factors on our emotional connections.